are we... becoming distant?

[Lady_Chaos]

My bf and I have had this GrEaT relationship, but I think were distancing. We keep getting in little quarrels but then everything goes back to normal... for the most part... our way of communication is through an instant messager (of a kind) and when we get in a quarrel and then make up we dont talk as much and he says he wishes his other friend would get online so that he could talk to him... that makes me X-Tremely sad because he doesnt even KNOW him personally.... sure, hes talked to him LoTs, but hes never MeT him. It really hurts to know that hed rather talk to someone he doesnt know then me, his gf. I feel so rejected and it doesnt do anything to help my Already Low and declining very rapidly self esteem.... Do you have any suggestions as to what I should do about this, because I honestly have no idea.....

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think you should tell him this is hurting you

[Perseus]

Axel got the right idea, maybe your bf might not of noticed what he's doing.

[IBeRunnin]

Why is the main way you two communicate through IM? Anyway, you should let him know how you feel. Also, you should try to build up your self-esteem in a way that doesn't depend on people, because then you will have some steady ground to stand on. People are anything but steady.

[Halibut]

tell him the truth. if it ends badly then maybe it was not ment to be