Sex or more?

[Halibut]

OK so there is this guy conner who i hve always kind of liked and we were talking on msn one night and he asked if there was someone i was wanting to date and i said maybe what about you and he said yea and i was like ok who and he said well you and if that does not work out then same. So we made plans to hang the next day and he came over and we talked flirted and watched a movie then he started kissing me. then fourplay then sex. so then after we watched the movie and cuddled and had a nice kiss goodbye and he left.
after that he never texted me so i asked him why he never texts me and he said becaues he has been at work. then i asked my friend megan what i should do and she said what for him to text me..its been a week since then and i still have not heard from him. SO whats up? i just texted him directly asking if he just wanted a lay and that was a few min ago so i have not gotten a reply. but i am really confused because why would he kiss me if he was not into me. and i didnt think he was the type of guy to just want sex and leave. since he had not had sex for almost a year... help?

[Gumleaf]

i think the excuses for not texting or calling back can only last for so long. i think there is definetly an issue, whether it be that he just wanted some sex or that he doesn't want a relationship or what. i don't know if you are in a position to talk to him in person, but i think that if you can, you need too. confrontation will be the only way kellie because it looks like he is avoiding you right now for whatever reason that may be.

[thiscityisdead]

guys can be like that, ive been that guy before and it makes me feel like shit and havent done it since then,

as for the not receiving anything, confrontation is probably the best bet, seein that he is avoiding you, wich is bogus as hell!

[IBeRunnin]

Sadly, it sounds like he pulled a hit and run on you, to be honest. Now, try to contact him once more, but if he continues to ignore you or come up wth lame excuses (and you will know a lame excuse when ou hear one), then just leave him be and move on. There are plenty of guys out there who will actually stick it out for the long run.

[byee]

You had sex with someone you basically just started seeing, what were you expecting? It sounds like you guys agreed to go out, you invited him over, and had sex.

There's a danger in having sex early in a relationship, b/c without the back drop of some kind of emotional involvement (or in your case, even a relationship), sex is really more for entertainment purposes. So, it's unfortunate but not that surprising that he wouldn't txt or call, he doesn't have a connection to you other than physically. Calling would require an emotional (or feeling) connection. That takes time to develop.

[Halibut]

thanks everyone :)