Girls HELP deals with puburty

[NeedyTeen]

Hi I am a new member. I signed up to ask a few questions.
I lately have been feeling weird about myself. I am 13 years old almost 14
1: weight. I am I guess a normal weight. I do got some to lose though. Any way how? probably 10 pounds.
2: Sexuality. Okay well I know what masterbation is but it never makes me orgasm I only started doing it to orgasm. Please give me some advice. Please if you are going to state items no sex toys just common house hold items.
I hear like hump a pillow or something? How do you do that? How do you stimulate the clit? Where is my g-spot?
I havent used items in a few months. I like using water. I open my legs between the tub faucet and let the water go in. Any way I can make myself orgasm with water? iF yes is there like a special place this water should go?(i mean certian part of the vagina)
Please exuse such weird questions but I feel better asking strangers than people I know. Besides I do have real friends to ask!!
Please give any techinques.I need help,I just want to lose 10 pounds so I CAN accutally wear clothes and experience an orgasm.


P.S Dont find me crazy!! AND if you are going to mention parts of the vagina be specific because I dont know somany scientific names.

PLEASE & THANKS!:yes:

[BeautifulSilence]

1: weight. I am I guess a normal weight. I do got some to lose though. Any way how?
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2: Sexuality. Okay well I know what masterbation is but it never makes me orgasm I only started doing it to orgasm. Please give me some advice.
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I hear like hump a pillow or something? How do you do that? How do you stimulate the clit? Where is my g-spot?
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Any way I can make myself orgasm with water?


Welcome.

1: Gaining weight is a natural part of puberty. The fat that is stored is essential for growth because it helps with vitamins and nutrients. You probably don't need to lose any weight, especially not as much as 10 lbs if you aren't overweight. However, replacing all of your drinks with water is a good, healthy way to lose a little bit of weight and also lower your overall sugar, salt and calorie intake.

The only advice I can really give you for masturbation is go with what feels nice for you. Just play around with your body when you are in the mood - orgasms are mostly a mental thing, if you're not horny, is harder.

Lots of girls do rub against pillows, sheets or teddies, because that stimulates the clitorios. We can't give you tips, but search 'Female Masturbation Tips' on Google.

You're G-Spot is on the front wall of your vagina. How far independs on the girl, it ranges from 2 inches to 4 inches, usually. It's normally quite hard to locate unless you're flexible or have an aid [toy or partner].

Yes, a lot of girls use a detachable shower head to focus on the clit [part closest to your belly button]. But, in general, using running water on any part of the vulva or anus should create some pleasure.

Other household items that can be used [for insertive masturbation] are hair brush handles, screwdrivers, fingers, and anything else that is CLEAN before and after using them. There's also [stimulating clit] electronic toothbrushes, mobile phones on vibrate, shower heads and anything that you feel okay rubbing against.

I hope that's helped :)

[NeedyTeen]

Welcome.

1: Gaining weight is a natural part of puberty. The fat that is stored is essential for growth because it helps with vitamins and nutrients. You probably don't need to lose any weight, especially not as much as 10 lbs if you aren't overweight. However, replacing all of your drinks with water is a good, healthy way to lose a little bit of weight and also lower your overall sugar, salt and calorie intake.

The only advice I can really give you for masturbation is go with what feels nice for you. Just play around with your body when you are in the mood - orgasms are mostly a mental thing, if you're not horny, is harder.

Lots of girls do rub against pillows, sheets or teddies, because that stimulates the clitorios. We can't give you tips, but search 'Female Masturbation Tips' on Google.

You're G-Spot is on the front wall of your vagina. How far independs on the girl, it ranges from 2 inches to 4 inches, usually. It's normally quite hard to locate unless you're flexible or have an aid [toy or partner].

Yes, a lot of girls use a detachable shower head to focus on the clit [part closest to your belly button]. But, in general, using running water on any part of the vulva or anus should create some pleasure.

Other household items that can be used [for insertive masturbation] are hair brush handles, screwdrivers, fingers, and anything else that is CLEAN before and after using them. There's also [stimulating clit] electronic toothbrushes, mobile phones on vibrate, shower heads and anything that you feel okay rubbing against.

I hope that's helped :)
Thanks.
I was wondering while putting the water on my clit,do I let it run until I orgasm? How long is that estimated to be? I know everyone is different though. And when i let it run should I like not stop lets say move my vagina to a different place. Would that effect the orgasm to not come?
If it does come what do I do?

If not too personal what has made u orgasm and how? (no sex toys please)
I really want to experience at least one orgasm. Especially since I have lately had the urge to have sex.NOT THAT I WILL EVER HAVE IT!! I'm a kid.
But I think orgasming might relieve my urge.

And the weight,great when should it come off? I do not drink soda or anything just waste,I prefer it anyways. I only eat heatlthy food and hardly eat as fast food resturants. When I do eat out it's an organic place.It kinda sucks knowing Im like this cause of purberty,I don't worry about my weight since Im about 113(good weight for my height is 105-110)and I know Im heathly but I want to lose so I can wear a t-shirt and not think Im fat! I hate my stomach it sticks out:( Can those 3 pounds really do this to me? I don't know,I don't think so right?

[byee]

Thankfully, Laura has answered this, a lot of chica questions here. *Blushes*.

I think that whatever feels good for you is ok, as long as it feels OK it's OK. If it hurts at some point, or feels uncomfortable, you should stop. With H20, just be aware that it's coming out of the faucet with some force, so be aware of this, and try to keep the stream on the outside of your vagina, don't direct it inside.

Your weight sounds fine, although I understand about your tummy. There are 2 parts to body appearance: One is fat, the other is muscle. I think what you're describing isn't so much a fat issue, but rather a (lack of) muscle issue. A little toning and firming would probably do what you want here, so you might want to add a little exercise in, brisk walking, maybe a short run. Abs (tummy muscles) respond well to sit ups, and not too many, either!

[NeedyTeen]

I can't remember if we are a allowed to post links or not so I will give you this link and check the rules. If I am not allowed I will remove it and PM you:
Link. (http://www.letsmasturbate.com/women/)

That site has loads of masturbation tips for girls.

1: weight. I am I guess a normal weight. I do got some to lose though. Any way how? probably 10 pounds. Gaining weight during puberty is normal.

2: Sexuality. Okay well I know what masterbation is but it never makes me orgasm I only started doing it to orgasm. Please give me some advice. Please if you are going to state items no sex toys just common house hold items.
I hear like hump a pillow or something?

How do you do that? Just do what you said, hump the pillow. Move it around on your crotch, just do what ever feels good.
How do you stimulate the clit? Most females just rub it with their fingers.
Where is my g-spot? Your G-spot is on the front wall of your vagina under your pubic bone. (I do believe that it is hard for a female to be able to stimulate their own G-spot.

I havent used items in a few months. I like using water. I open my legs between the tub faucet and let the water go in. Any way I can make myself orgasm with water? I do think that some females can. The link I gave you has something about that somewhere.

Well thanks.
But what do you mean by don't get the water go inside my vagina? like in the big whole?? I've done it before:what::what: is that bad?
And when I put water on my clit it feels so good and intense that I just have to stop But I dont cause it feels good. Its not that I have to stop but I just feel like letting out a shout!

[BeautifulSilence]

But what do you mean by don't get the water go inside my vagina? like in the big whole?? I've done it before:what::what: is that bad?

Yeah, that's the hole. It's because your vagina self-lubricates to keep you healthy and prevent infections. When the water gets inside it washes away. It's not totally bad, just not great - also because of the bacteria on from the tap.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Well thanks.
But what do you mean by don't get the water go inside my vagina? like in the big whole?? I've done it before:what::what: is that bad?
And when I put water on my clit it feels so good and intense that I just have to stop But I dont cause it feels good. Its not that I have to stop but I just feel like letting out a shout!

i think you're experiencing it already, do you feel like shaking when it gets too good?

if so, you're probably having an orgasm already

[NeedyTeen]

Well I guess I am having an orgasm or a baby one :D maybe i shouldlet the waterkeep going and not stop so soon.

[Polly16]

Hey hun,
You will get the most amazing orgasms from an electric toothbrush, the ones that spin and vibrate. I mean, AMAZING!! push the bristles of the brush against your clit, and let them spin.
Its absolutely mindblowing!:eek:
I dont fing that i get the same effect from anything else, although i have rubbed a pen on my clit really fast before, and that takes a longer time to orgasm.
Hope you enjoy it.
xxx

[IrishJohnny28]

as for your stomach it sounds like you need to work the abs. what i recommend are doing sittups but twist at the top of the sittup so you touch your right elbow to your left knee and left elbow to your right knee. this will firm up all of your front abdominals and really tighten things up. for back muscles try push ups, pull ups, or lay down on your stomach and lift up your torso like your superman. do 20 minutes of these things a day and youll notice a difference in 2 weeks :D also try lying on your back and lifting up legs 6 inches off the ground.

[Ellie wood crainey]

Not so Shute about the weight loss but about the toys use things like electrical tooth brushes, hair brushes, television remote, I have a old phone with a pay as you go sim card and just ring it make sure you turn off answer phone coz it will keep ringing good luck

P.s. if the item loos good no harm in trying it ;)