Want a Girl Friend(Need Tips from guys and girls)

[bos_cool]

i havent had a girlfriend since like early primary school... and for most of my school life i was fat and had was too embarressed to talk to girls... i lost some wieght now... but i still dont have the guts to ask out a girl... can i get some tips off girls and guys to help me out???

[Requin]

I've remained love-less for my entire life!! So in my harsh words, it's not that important.

But anywho...the best thing to do is TALK! It's such a simple human gesture that's so underated. Just talk to the girl you like, it will be emmbarasing for you at first...but after a while you'll feel more and more comfortable with her. Then you can pluck up the courage to ask her out!

Just go with the flow man. :-) Talk and be merry.

Hope it goes well.

[BeautifulSilence]

Moved to Relationships and Dating.

[aussie._pride_.]

hey hey
hmm yes as a girl we love 2 TALK
so talk as much as u can
and dnt be shy!!
we like guys with confidence!!
but dnt get 2 cocky! :)

hope i helped

brookey xoxo

btw dnt talk too much and dnt talk
about ur self too much

[Halibut]

be yourself. dont worry about getting a girlfriend just go with the flow and the girls will come to you..or if there is a girl you like just ask if she wants to hang out and see how it goes

[jjmcray]

Yeah man... I keep trying to tell this to everyone... because I used to be just like you.

No matter how fat, skinny, ugly, or handsome you are, there is always at least one girl out there who will like you for who you are on the inside. Not because of how you look.

Like others have said, just go with the flow. Stop worrying about yourself and the way you may or may not look in front of girls. Just be comfortable and accept that you are the way you are right now.

Trust me, it makes a difference. Girls will notice. You will find that special girl soon bro, I guarantee it.

You will be able to tell when a girl likes you. She will start calling you out of the blue just to talk about some random thing, she'll follow you around if she sees you, ask where you're going and what you're doing and why you're not doing what she's doing.
You get to know her a little better, maybe take her out to lunch a few times and a couple movies... And you'll start getting closer to each other.
Then, you just ask her out. Plain and simple, there's really no "method" to it or anything, no one can really help you do this. It's just basic instinct.

[ECGBUnni]

the most important part is to be comfortable with yourself, like every one has said.

it's obvious you want a relationship, but when you think about it in those terms you tend to forget that it's the PERSON you want, not the RELATIONSHIP. The first step in finding a girlfriend is to find out what you want in a girlfriend. Do you want her to be on the quieter side? Or more extroverted? Religious or not so much? Figure out the qualities in a person that you believe are important.

When you know what sort of person you want to date, try to meet people in situations where those qualities tend to show, but don't meet every girl with the purpose of dating her. Then you'll never be happy. You have to like the girl, want the girl, and THEN the relationship (if that makes sense).

If you do find a girl that you think you like, or that you know you like, relax. We misread you as much as you misread us. So, like everyone has said, go with the flow.

Finally, if you fail once, don't worry. Like the old clichè goes, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

My best of luck to you.

[triplethreat40]

You don't want to just go ask out some random girl for the street cred. wait untill you find someone you care about, and then it will all fall into place. We're all teenagers here, you have plenty of time to fall in love.

When you do find someone you want to ask out, don't make it a big deal. Wash your hair and brush your teeth, but just make it non-chalant, like you've done it a million times before.