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AlexTheStar
January 10th, 2009, 06:16 PM
Well I am 13 and my sister is 16, she always is in a bad mood and is never out of her room. Me and her always fight like 24/7 is there anything I can do to not make her so mad?
Thanks.

Dragonite
January 10th, 2009, 08:08 PM
My sister is like that if ur "annoying" then stop exept mines not alaways in a bad mood

Sapphire
January 11th, 2009, 10:18 AM
If she is in a bad mood all of the time - as in there is never a moment when she's happy - then I really doubt that you are the problem. I think she's probably having problems that you are not aware of. Maybe try talking with your parents about her moodiness and expressing your concern.

Reaper
January 11th, 2009, 12:36 PM
Bad moods are common at that age. Its a very busy age, its usually when you start exams, relationships etc..


I find fun from antagonising my younger sister because she has started doing similar things, but If your really concerned just always try to be nice to her, which Im sure you are. Do not take offence if she is angry back.. Im sure you will go through something similar sometime in the near future!

byee
January 11th, 2009, 01:18 PM
Well, you could try to calmly talk wuth her about it, see from her pespective why she's angry, and if there's something that you can do to help.

There are lots of reasons why she might be the way she is, and the first step is to try to find out from her which one it is. In the mean time, by asking her nicely and offering to help work on it, you give her a nice, cooperative message, which can help deescalate the situation.

To say the least, you should avoid fighting with her, remember, it takes 2.

Halibut
January 13th, 2009, 04:29 PM
if she is 16 then her hormones are rageing and 16 year olds act like that..i know..i am one lol. but ya its normal nothing to be worried about