First Fight...

[Seth48]

Uhgn me and my GF had like our first fight and it was very Depressing

I'm better now i and think shes a bit better but it was upsetting.

:(

Sorry if i'm just Blabbing i needed to tell someone...

[Gumleaf]

they happen, and they are never nice. the one positive i take out is that if you can get through them it proves the strength of the relationship. hope things turn out ok for you 2.

[byee]

Fights are the pits, anything that threatens the well being of the relationship is hard! However, disagreement is a natural part of any relationship. What makes it 'destructive' isn't that it happens (which it will), it's how it's ultimately resolved. If you can talk it through, and listen it through, then it's actually a good thing, b/c you both learn something important and grow closer as a result.

[staying_alive]

make sure you talk about what happened when you've both calmed down. me and my ex had fights all the time, but we were able to discuss what happened and it definitely made us stronger.

[Cindex]

The first one had to come sometime. And even if it's not a rational conversation, it's better than letting things go completely unsaid.