What should I do? Should I ask her again?

[Kyle787]

I really like this girl I asked out 3 weeks ago. She said, "Here's the thing, I really think you are a great guy, but I really like another guy. (his name) but please don't tell anyone. No one is supposed to know."

We still talked to each other and then this week when we were talking about it when she said "Oh, I don't like him anymore, he is in a relationship."I am friends with the guy and I know she is telling the truth.

I have three classes with her and I get to talk to her in one. But our other friend comes over to talk too. I have her number and all but I can't tell if she would be interested in going out with me now. She never is the one to start flirting with anyone, and she never starts conversations, even with her best friends. (she waits for someone else to start one.) I do notice she looks at me when I talk and I do the same, but she does that to half the people she knows. So I can't wait until she starts talking to me or texting me because she doesn't do that. The only time I could have a 1 on 1 conversation is walking out of our class at the end of the day. Now I don't know if it is too soon or what I should do.?? I don't want to wait too long to do it.

[Lady_Chaos]

Something kinda like this happened to me... once i was in the relationship and the other time he was in the relationship. the first time was when I was in the relationship and really hating it so i asked this other guy out and then dumped my bf to go out with him... that relationship ended badly... but the one im in now was different. I told the guy i like him but he was supposedly going out with this other chick. Every time I asked her tho she said that they werent dating... this made me VERY mad.... and then one day he just randomly came up to me and asked me out. This time its been a great experience. and it keeps getting better. If it were me in your position right now I would ask her out again. But you might not want to take my advise in this considering I dont have the best of luck with guys... d= but theres my opinion... hope it helps... even if its just a little....

[Seth48]

OH By the Way Hun i love your Icon =) P!ATD for the Win!

OK Well yes As Lady Said We were in this Situation and its Did suck Cuz the Girl Kept Saying I was going out with her and Blah blah blah...

Yeah well i think you should give it some more time and then ask her out agian if she doesn't wanna go out then It's proly not gunna happen sadly. as much as you would like it to =(

Yeah ME and Lady Had this Same kinda Problem So yeah. :(

[byee]

If she's available, go for it. Esp. since she said that she liked someone else, but they didn't know it. She might very well like you, and not be forward enough to tell you, too! "Now that you and 'x' aren't going out, how about us?"

[Jack0700]

Well i noticed u said something about you wanting her to text you. You can try texting her first instead of waiting for her to text you. Just say something like hey, whats up? idk thats just what i would do.

[Midsummer Nights]

Just go for it. Lots of girls like it when guys are determined and try again.

Good Luck!

[GiZzLe]

well, that happened to me once. this guy liked me (but he is younger than me) and sort of asked me out, but i said no. he knows who i liked at the time, but we still talk. (he mite even still like me) any way, u should just text her and if she acts weird about it, then give her her space.