View Full Version : My parents did divorce
Mathew404
January 6th, 2009, 09:07 PM
It kind of hit me, but i didnt really honestly care, just because they hated each other and i want to see them happy. So, right now i am living with my mom and shes sitting here crying all day cause of it. I dont understand how she and my dad both wanted a divorce but shes crying.
byee
January 6th, 2009, 09:14 PM
It's an adjustment. And eventhough your folks didn't get along, and are perhaps better off now, there's still a sense of loss. Not just over the actual relationship, but also 'what could have been'. It's the loss of what she hoped for, of what she needed, and thought your dad could provide. She didn't envision it ending this way and being alone.
Hopefully, she'll get over it and move on, until then, lots of TLC. For both of you.
Viral Death
January 16th, 2009, 12:31 AM
I feal really bad for your mom but I think she will move on the same thing happened to me except I was 4 when mine divorced
rydavis16
July 10th, 2010, 11:48 AM
This might be a hard time for you as it is with your parents. But I think you need to let them know you are very willing to discuss things with them. Just make sure that they can't use you to discuss matters for them instead of interacting with each other.
I hope everything will be okay for you and your family soon.
Kaius
July 10th, 2010, 11:49 AM
Don't bump old threads please :locked:
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