What If I Had A bf?

[TurboDieselBandit]

I am emotionally and physically attracted to boys and want to see what is is like to go out with one. I don't want to spend my life with a guy but I do want to have a boy friend now while I'm in high school. The problem is that I don't know any bi or gay boys at school even though I know they are out there. I really want to do this soon before I become older. Should I be looking for a guy? As a boy, are you feeling the same way?

[chris__batman]

Read: Boy Meets Boy by David Levithan, its about a guy exactly like you've mentioned and your age. You will love the book as i did, (and i felt really emotional while reading it. It is now one of my favourite books) and i also have to say. RELAX. You dont have to find your life partner now, and your only 15, you have a long time before you become old and hairy! :)

[TurboDieselBandit]

I don't want to live with a guy when I'm older but I do want to do lots of things with a boy while I'm high school.

[George678]

There is nothing wrong with having a bf now because I am sure some of your friends have gf's?
But you might need to keep it discreet.

[Mr. Smithers]

What is the rush really? Maybe you should talk to some people at your school and see if they know anybody Gay/Bi at your school.

If not you should do what I did and decided not to get involved with High School relations. But that's all that I can give you for right now.

[Furn_93]

Well I feel like that right now, I don't want to be married to a man, I wanna family when i'm older. I want to have the fun with a guy now and then just have a family.
So I say go for it, cos I still haven't had the chance so should it arise take it.

[TurboDieselBandit]

"Furn 93" said exactly how I feel. "Well I feel like that right now, I don't want to be married to a man, I wanna family when I'm older. I want to have the fun with a guy now and then just have a family." I am pretty sure that when I leave high school I will lose interest in guys and will only find the ones who want to marry. So I want to start the fun as soon as possible.

[notsure101]

Just dont look but keep a sharp eye out

[Halibut]

Read: Boy Meets Boy by David Levithan, its about a guy exactly like you've mentioned and your age. You will love the book as i did, (and i felt really emotional while reading it. It is now one of my favourite books) and i also have to say. RELAX. You dont have to find your life partner now, and your only 15, you have a long time before you become old and hairy! :)




omg i read that book! it is amazing. i lent it to my guy friend who is gay and he just loved it!

[curiousteen]

its the same way wit me i want to have fun all of my high skool year and probably a few years in college. i want to have fun for as long as i can and then have a wife and kids.

[aussie_nsw]

Oh please Love is a myth , well around that age it is ( I is a longing LUST )..
hardly something you can call love .....

[thiscityisdead]

Oh please Love is a myth , well around that age it is ( I is a longing LUST )..
hardly something you can call love .....


how could you say that? my parents have been together since they were in 7TH grade, thats a long time considering there 42, when you FEEL love you know it, go with what your heart tells you. =]]

[TurboDieselBandit]

Do any of you have a bf? or do "stuff" with friends of the same sex?

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah with my last bf, we had sex before started to date lolz

[PuppetPrince]

yeah i had sex too .. but then i didnt want to go tou with him cuz , it didnt feel like i wanted it from him .. maybee from another.. but i guess just keep looking? =D

[Axellance]

You cannot choose who you are attracted to, it sound to me like you want to go wild and get some with a guy while you are in a high school then get ready for a long dull life with a girl who you cannot be sexually attracted to. I find a lot of guys hold on to that perfect ideal family life image even after they realize they are gay and want to be with a girl just to have the ideal life. You can have a great life with a guy too and you will be happier because you wont be living a lie. this is just what it sound like to me, unless you are bi... but remember you can wait and experiment later in life you don't have to do it right now!

[Furn_93]

Yeah I don't want a relationship right now, I just want a hot guy to mess around with a lot.... lol

There are loads of hot guys at school, but none of them (to my knowledge) are gay/bi... which really sucks!

[Lifeguard18]

I wish I ha a bf