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ViT0
January 5th, 2009, 09:33 PM
ok. so ive stayed at a friends house numerous times. and alot of stuff happened, ALOT(we used protection and stuff). but i have no means of emotional attachment to him. just a "bangbuddy" thing. ive had girlfriends while this was happening and believe me. i LOVED one of em to death. im just wondering your guys opinions about what im posting here. the question is What am I? i know there are other topics like this one but i wanna get my OWN responses
Atonement
January 5th, 2009, 09:37 PM
Assuming you are still in puberty, like most people in here, I would call you curious. Sexuality is what goes on in your head. If you love women, you are straight, if you love men, you are gay. But its not if you MAKE love with eithersex, its who you love. If you love women but have a physical attraction to men, I'd call you curious. My opinoin
ViT0
January 5th, 2009, 09:44 PM
the for the quick reply!. i read your post and it helps but i want MORE. lol. i can fall in love with girls but i cant fall in love with guys. its just a physical attraction to guys. like if i see a hot guy the first thing i think about is his penis and what does he look like without clothes on. but when i see a hot girl i just think to myself. what if we were to get together and fall in love,,have kids and get married. its just confusing
chris__batman
January 5th, 2009, 11:10 PM
id say that submitting to intercoarse is a little more than curious. I would say that you have some bi sexual tendencies, and you should get those into check, or seriously consider them,
curiousteen
January 12th, 2009, 03:05 AM
yea i would say ur bi cause i like guys physically to and i like girls emotionally most of the time for both
byee
January 12th, 2009, 02:02 PM
VITO, we really cannot say what your behavior means to you, only you can. What I can say is that there's a lot of behavior that's considered 'normal', and that only time will tell.
What I'd also say is that eventhough you might be doing things here that are just physically gratfiying for you, b/c they involve another person, and they're rather intimate, you might want to take into consideration the feelings of that other person. What 2 people consent to do in private is their own business, but it's really important (and decent) to make sure that your expectations are the same as his, that your behavior means the same to him as it does to you.
Halibut
January 15th, 2009, 08:04 PM
naw every teen goes through that stage of being bi. its diffrent and some people are intrigued by that!
mr.sexy_bomb
January 17th, 2009, 03:55 AM
i think you are just curious and you should wait and you will find out what you real sexuality is
Furn_93
January 17th, 2009, 07:22 PM
Doesn't sound like your gay. We don't really have to put a label on stuff when you're this age. It's good you have a bang-buddy, many people don't, but the one thing you must do is not let that stuff you do continue after you're like 18-19, otherwise it'll be really weird.
I'd just say you're curious, seeing as you don't LOVE him.
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