My Ex-girlfriend

[The Batman]

Since New Years I've been reconnecting with my Ex and I've learned that the chemistry is still there. I got her new number and we've been txting back and forth I've told her that I still love her(we last dated 3 years ago) and that I still want to be with her. She said that she has a boyfriend and that she does miss how sweet I was to her. I'm single right now and I told her that when she's ready I'll be here waiting and she says she'll definitely do that. This is the same girl that dumped me 3 or 4 times for one of my friends, that cheated on me, and that broke my heart but I can't get over her. I'm thinking that if I just get one more time with her I'll do things different and maybe she won't leave. There's also a part of me that's not wanting any part of her and thats scared it might happen again. Is it worth putting my heart on the line? Should I stop trying? Whenever there's no drama between us we're happy and it's the best thing in the world it's just I don't know. What do you guys think I should do?

[Requin]

Honestly. I think you should see if you can get over her first. If you can move on and forget about her, then I think you should, as she caused you too much grief by stabbing you in the back.

But if you can't get over her, and you just can't move on because you love her too much, then go for it. However, as she said she enjoyed you being 'sweet' to her. She didn't actually say that she loved you and missed you.
So to me it sounds as if she would be turn her back on you at the first oportunity.
As I said, it's up to you.

But if it was me, I would really try to forget about her, as if she stabbed you in the back once, she'll just return the knife to it's home.

[byee]

Hey Y'all! (and happy New Year!),

I think she was a damned silly fool for letting you go, people like that don't deserve a second chance, Thomas, unless they're able to show some real awareness about their behavior and (frankly) stupid judgement. In the absence of that, I think you're just feeling a bit of nostalgia, they say memeory paints in soft pastels, and you're perhaps minimizing all the bad stuff, and holding onto the 'good' stuff, which in this case seems pretty thin to begin with. Just having someone isn't good enough. They need to cherish you.

It's good you're missing that special feeling a special someone can bring. Look forward, though, not back, and use that to find someone new who can be there for you in a good way and be deserving of your attention and affection.

[The Batman]

I'm done and over her she did something to me that really pisses me off. She lied, she said she had a bf for 5 months but according to her family she doesn't have one. She said that I should just get over her even though she was telling me how she missed me and wanted to be with me. I hate her so much, but i still can't get rid of how I once felt and how i still feel a little.

[byee]

eew, yuck, Thomas. Her loss, though, silly girl.

Loss take a while to get over, it's not just the loss of her, but the idea of arelationship. it wasn't all bad, so you tend to remember (and miss0 the good parts.

Those good parts will be there next time, with a new, very lucky chica. When you're ready, you'll go find her. And all that love that you've been missing, but with someone who might be able to recriprocate it.

Until then, take extra good care of yourself.

[Halibut]

First before you date her i think you need to get over what she has done to you ..or just cut her out of yourlife. you dont deserve that. or take it really slow if you want to be in a relationship wiht her again