help

[xhottxrockerxchicx]

idk what to do. there's this guy i just cant forget about. i havent talked to or seen him for months after we broke up. then all of a sudden we saw each other at walmart on new year's eve. he slowed and stared as he past, but he didnt talk to me. now all of a sudden i want him back extremely bad and i wanna talk to him. but idk what to do about him. i wanna remember but i wanna forget. what do i do

[Requin]

It depends on why you broke up. And it depends if you really do love him, or you just miss being with him.

And of course..does he love you too?? Really the only way is to ask...sorry.

[ShatteredWings]

Why'dya break up girl?


He jsut might not care. Like joe [requin] said, you have to ask if he loves you. sometimes people don't

[xhottxrockerxchicx]

well i know im only 15, but i had my "first time" with him. my best friend found out and she got mad that the guy still liked his ex a little. she said that if i didnt break up with him then she'd tell my dad that me n him had sex. my dad's extremely strict, so i broke up with him. it didnt matter, she told my dad anyway

[byee]

I sure hope you're no longer friends with her! Blackmail isn't a part of any relationship! What she did is really awful, based on her own jealousy, and not at all considerate of your feelings. I can understand why you'd feel this is so incomplete, and why you can't let go.

What your friend did was basically interfere (actually, destroy) an important relationship, so you feel like you've not only lost something, but in a pretty violent way, too. It's hard to just move on with all those feelings, it's not like the relationship ended on your terms (or his).

Regardless of how strict your dad is, you are entitled to have some time with him to talk about what happened and your feelings about it, and probably say good bye. You've been denied closure here, and that always makes things much harder, there's this sense of incompleteness that just nags.

Consider telling him you need to talk with him for a bit about what happened, maybe plan on a time when you and he can get the clsoure you need to move on.

[xhottxrockerxchicx]

she wants me to be friends with her again but im just pretending. trust me im still pissed off at her about it and my dad and i did talk. and the guy is completely ignoring me. its like he already gave me closure

[BuryYourFlame]

i can completeley understand why you would want to be around him, there is even a scientific reason, but it might seem boring to you so i wont tell unless you ask.

Aside from the scientific side, there is an emotional side that you give to a person when you have sex with them, so it makes sense that without them, you dont feel the same.

I agree with the replies above, you need to ask him how he feels about you,

hope this doesnt count as bumping old threads, i still dont really know what time frame "old" refers to lol,

anyway, hope this helped,

Dec