Hmmmm this Might be a problem.....

[homerallii1]

Okay, so I have this girl, and she's all over me and stuff, she wants to see my penis. All good and fine right? NO. For one reason. I'm 14 years old. So my penis is not fully developed. 4 inches **sigh** so I would be embarrassed to take out my penis, cause I figure her as the type of girl who would laugh. Any suggestions on how to get he off my back or whatever? Do you think shed laugh? She claims that she is in love with me. Like legtimate love. What should i do? Help would be much appreciated thank you!!!

[lotrfanjon]

Well, really it is up to you whether or not to show her, but i would say if you two are really comfortable together, then do it. If she asked to see it and claims to be in love with you, I don't think she will laugh at you. Besides, having a 4 inch penis at 14 years old is not abnormal.

[Zan0ra]

Some people start before others. You cant do anything to make it grow bigger in a matter pf seconds. Its not your fault. If you are uncomfortable with showing er it then dont. Tell her no.

Bdw 600th post :D

[pontiacdriver]

Okay, so I have this girl, and she's all over me and stuff, she wants to see my penis. All good and fine right? NO. For one reason. I'm 14 years old. So my penis is not fully developed. 4 inches **sigh** so I would be embarrassed to take out my penis, cause I figure her as the type of girl who would laugh. Any suggestions on how to get he off my back or whatever? Do you think shed laugh? She claims that she is in love with me. Like legtimate love. What should i do? Help would be much appreciated thank you!!!

The fact that you have serious doubts about this girl accepting your body should be cause alone to put the brakes on doing anything intimate such as showing your naked body to this girl. Showing yourself naked is a big step, and the person with whom you share your body must be someone who genuinely cares about you. If this girl is someone you don't feel comfortable with whom to share your body, then the answer is quite simple: don't do so.

With all that being said, your basic problem is how to get this girl to stop asking to see you naked. You simply need to tell her that you don't want to show your naked body to her, and tell her that if she really loves you, then she will respect that decision. Clearly, if this girl keeps pushing the issue, then your problem is not one of your body but rather this girl not respecting you as a person. If you phrase the issues as this girl respecting you, then she will be forced to back off. If she pushes the issue, then she will appear bad for not respecting your privacy.

My final note is that for a 14 year old a 4 inch penis size is really good. I am sure that there are kids in your class (8th/9th grade) who still have not started puberty, and you seem to be well along. Any girl who expects a 8th/9th grader to have a full size penis is delusional. Look at it this way: there is no way that your girlfriend is totally developed, and why would the same be expected of you?

[Θάνατος]

Well if you are afraid that she will laugh at you then definitely don't show here but also I am not sure you would want top be with a girl would laugh at you any way. You might want to reevaluate if this is a person you want to be in a relationship.

One thing is if she really cares about you the she will accept what you have .

I hope what i said helps you.

[lol123]

wow dude u got ur self in a pickle here.
1.4" u never know if she considers it big-normal-small if u go with it and she says WOW u can just be relieved right there.if she doesnt say anything she might think normal..if she laughs u already know.i have the same problem as u.my girlfreidn said "look alex in september 5th after i turn 15 and september 19 after u turn 15 your birthday present and my birthday present will be sex" and i was like OMG and i was happy.....BUT my cock is 4" big!!!Grr so i posted here if it will grow and it will.if i where you id stall her.act scared and be like no im to young..but keep her close and then when u see uve grown go up to her and say "so you said u wanted to see my dick?" and pull it out:yes:....
or u can even just show her.if she laughs keep it cool..be like "im only 14 what do u want?im still growing" and go with it...dont let her laugh at you laugh with her and join her.if she tells people use the same excuse and just chill and laugh with them..i hope i could help:D

[Sapphire]

You simply need to tell her that you don't want to show your naked body to her, and tell her that if she really loves you, then she will respect that decision. Clearly, if this girl keeps pushing the issue, then your problem is not one of your body but rather this girl not respecting you as a person. If you phrase the issues as this girl respecting you, then she will be forced to back off. If she pushes the issue, then she will appear bad for not respecting your privacy.
Well said.

[ViT0]

love does NOT happen instantly. but honestly if she says she loves you then just get hard before you show it to her. im sure that would make a difference

[chris__batman]

like every movie and person has heard "It aint the size that counts, its how you use it" so my advice is to read a lot of sex help books, and learn some really great moves.. haha

[byee]

Bobby, if you're not ready to be that intimate with her, you should just tell her that directly. Being sexual with someone is not only determined by an emotional readiness, but also a desire. Having someone wanting to look at you for their own curiosity doesn't exactly sound either romantic, or desirable. Who wants to be on display?

Sex is best enjoyed when you are both emotionally developed, as well as physically developed. And although you are well on your way to both, you and she have a ways to go.

[iamniokekun]

you don't have 2 show her. Just know that.

But just 'cause she loves u doesn't mean u have to flip out ur penis.

[AMERICANelite123]

Sorry I'm just a girl. But really if she says she "loves" yous, she wouldn't NEED to see it. I mean Iv'e wanted to see my boyfriends before but I didn't tell him. Chill love you don't have to show her and I said if she loves you she will understand if you want to wait.

[BuryYourFlame]

Please don't post in old threads, this one is an entire year old!

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