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Lady_Chaos
January 4th, 2009, 10:07 PM
Okay, I think I am seriously messed up -- but I want your opinion on it.

So, whenever I am on a date with my BF (presumably at the movies) he likes to touch me. I don't mind it when he touches me. Except for when he touches my stomach. It's the only part of me that I don't like being touched, or rubbed... He asked me once to rate these areas: stomach, chest, crotch 1, 2, or 3. 1. being all the time, 2. being sometimes, and 3. being not at all. I put them in this order Crotch - 1., Chest - 2., and Stomach - 3. I just want to know if being this way is bad... or if its abnormal. I am just a little worried....
thiscityisdead
January 4th, 2009, 10:17 PM
your body concious and its completely normal, you just dont feel comfortable when he touches you there, theres nothing wrong with you just a little body concious, my gf used to be that wayy but shes over it now, maybe its just a phase,

hope i helped =]]
byee
January 4th, 2009, 11:26 PM
None of the above.

Peole like certain things, and they dislike other things, and although there might be some deep psychological reason for it (like in the case of abuse, for instance), it could also be just a normal preference which you shouldn't read too much into.

Regardless of how 'weird' it might seem to you or him, it is still important for him to respect your wishes.
BeautifulSilence
January 5th, 2009, 04:56 PM
If you don't like your stomach being touched, for whatever reason, make sure your boyfriend is aware of it. If he knows you don't like it, he should stop.

Everyone has body parts that they are uncomfortable about being touched, and for a lot of the girls I know, it's their stomach. I would say that there is nothing different about you, and you are totally normal :)
Lady_Chaos
January 5th, 2009, 05:13 PM
okay, thanks guys, and he knows that i dont like my tummy being touched... and he respects that...
jgforlife008
January 5th, 2009, 09:25 PM
Ok I don't think it's weird but it's just my favorite spot to touch my gf ( stomach)
SLABBS
January 6th, 2009, 02:56 AM
you may be concerned about your weight and not know it.
Lahdkshdk
January 11th, 2009, 01:04 AM
Ahh u a kansan LOL me too but yeah it's your body thats not wierd.0