ciberkiller21
January 3rd, 2009, 07:31 PM
I just broke up with my gf and i need some ideas on wat to do to get over her and just move on please help cos im feelin realy down and unhappy rite now any help will be much apreciated thnxs
byee
January 3rd, 2009, 10:53 PM
Oh, yuck! Sorry for your loss.
The best antidote for this is time, and time spent with other people you feel safe and comfortable around. With time, the sense of sadness and loss passes, and you're ready for your next adventure.
dyslexiaa
January 3rd, 2009, 11:01 PM
Whatever you do, don't let yourself think that it's your fault. It wasn't a mistake, you don't need to change, and it's definitely not your fault. Don't go back!
Once you accept that it's not your problem anymore, cut her off. Don't talk to her, don't IM her, get rid of her completely. Even if you want to be her friend, you have to cut her off until you can accept that you are friends and just friends. If she tries to talk to you or reconnect, ignore her, but be polite.
Forgetting is something that will be hard, but focus on things that make you happy. Sports, friends, other girls, whatever you can do to move on.
Break-ups happen, every good thing has to come to an end, but there are other people out there. You can always do better.
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