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Impact13
January 3rd, 2009, 03:12 PM
A couple years ago i started masterbating by an acident but anyways i found a porno in my brothers room and i started watching it. I got turned on a little bit by the girls, but when i saw a guys COCK it turned me on A LITTLE MORE now almost everytime i masterbate i think about me and anouther boy from my school. A couple of months ago me and my friend had oral sex and i liked it but everytime i see him i try to avoid him i think its embaresment he acts like it didnt even happen, what do i do???

Oblivion
January 3rd, 2009, 03:22 PM
Its normal for guys to experiment and to think of other guys while masturbating.
Being Bi or Gay is more than just a simple sexual attraction- its a mental, and emotional attraction too.
Would you like to have a boyfriend?
Would you like to have a deep relationship with a guy?
These are the types of questions you have to ask yourself before making a decision.

Zan0ra
January 3rd, 2009, 03:24 PM
Well... were you comfortable with what you did? did you regret it? I dont see how you should be embarrassed. Forget it. Imagine it didn't happen. Spend more time with other activities to get it out of your head. And if nervous when going near him just keep it simple. You know maybe say hello and stuff. You should gradually get more confident. Also being gay or bisexual is not what you get on the outside. No matter how big your boner turns out, it dosent change anything. Most of the time boners are caused by the most random stuff ever. In order to be gay/Bisexual you must feel it on the inside with all your heart. During puberty. Your hormones change things and make it difficult. So its best not to jump to any conclusions during the early stages as you have a lot more developing to do first.

thiscityisdead
January 3rd, 2009, 04:09 PM
Well... were you comfortable with what you did? did you regret it? I dont see how you should be embarrassed. Forget it. Imagine it didn't happen. Spend more time with other activities to get it out of your head. And if nervous when going near him just keep it simple. You know maybe say hello and stuff. You should gradually get more confident. Also being gay or bisexual is not what you get on the outside. No matter how big your boner turns out, it dosent change anything. Most of the time boners are caused by the most random stuff ever. In order to be gay/Bisexual you must feel it on the inside with all your heart. During puberty. Your hormones change things and make it difficult. So its best not to jump to any conclusions during the early stages as you have a lot more developing to do first.


i agree with zan all the way,

mr.sexy_bomb
January 3rd, 2009, 04:14 PM
i think he might be trying to forget what happened that time

markmcw
January 3rd, 2009, 06:30 PM
Yea... I know what you fell like... Just cause you saw a penis and got turned on by it dosnt mean your gay..

chris__batman
January 5th, 2009, 08:09 PM
It totally sounds like the first time you watched your bro's porn, and got excited when you saw the penis, its because that was familiar to you. Had you seen a vagina and boobs before? Im assuming because you said that was when you started masterbating, then it was way back when you started, and im going to assume that you hadn't seen either. As for having oral sex with other guys, that could be due to the curiosity part of you, but if it means anything on a deeper level it should be something you take into consideration.