Your opinion?

[lost1]

So I think I'm bi, but I' not 100% sure.

I was talking to someone on AIM today (a guy) and we exchanged....pictures of ourselves. They were very arousing to me....very.

When I masterbate I look at pictures of shirtless guys that I think are totally hot.

I fantasize about making out with guys and masterbating with them and such.

I really like girls, though. I've got a girlfriend right now and I love her, but I think guys are hot too.

I'm almost positive that I'm bi. What are the chances that I'm not? Explain.

PRIVATE MESSAGE ME.

[byee]

Search my last few posts, I've answered this recently.

[Neverender]

Why should I PM you? You'll get a lot more replies if we just post in the thread.


You don't sound Bi, you sound curious. It's caused by hormones and it's completely normal. being curious causes you to (usually) enjoy looking at the same sex, but still likeing the opposite both emotionally and physically.

It'll pass eventually.

[NightHawksr71]

Your only gay If you can LOVE the same gender emotionally, if its just physical than it is normally just a phase.

[Zan0ra]

Do you love guys generally? can you picture living with one? if no then your not bi. Simple as that. Oh and second sight. Why do you have 2 smiley faces ? one isn't even right.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah i think you are bi

[George678]

Your only gay If you can LOVE the same gender emotionally, if its just physical than it is normally just a phase.

No not always true.

[NightHawksr71]

No not always true.

Hence the normally.

In this case I would say its a phase. Even if its not. it will take you a little while to figure it out. Just take your time. You will figure it out, Try not to worry about it to much

[INFERNO]

First, I'm not going to PM you. I'm not even sure why you'd want people to PM you as you'd get more responses here. Second, according to the Kinsey Scale, bisexuality means equal attractiveness to both genders. You can have more attractiveness to one of the genders more than the other and some would still call that bisexual, some wouldn't. The Kinsey Scale doesn't call that bisexual.

It depends on your emotional and physical attraction to both genders. There's a "bisexual fashion" going on for a while where the idea of you kissing or screwing both sexes automatically makes you bisexual. Get that crap out of your head as that nonsense is completely wrong and tends to make you look like an attention-seeker. It doesn't sound from this thread that you are an attention-seeker though.

You seem to have the emotional + physical attraction to the females but only physical to the males. Perhaps you do have emotional attraction to males but from this thread, you haven't even hinted at that. Figure out if you do have the emotional attraction and whether or not the emotional + physical attraction is about the same for both genders.

If you're looking at the Kinsey Scale (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html), you'd be at around 2 or in the more vague terms, "curious".

[Archer600]

Your only gay If you can LOVE the same gender emotionally, if its just physical than it is normally just a phase.
Yea he's right

[chris__batman]

It sounds as though your deffinetly confused. I dont understand though how some members in this forum pass off such homo-erotic ideas as "your not gay because you cant see yourself living with the same sex when your older". A lot of people here cant see that happening because A) your young, and B) its called denial, and a lot of gay people (and bi people for that matter) will go around saying things like "its just a phase, thats not who i am" because admitting it to yourself is the hardest thing that you will have to do.

[ViT0]

hehe i have the same problem lost1 and the answers in this post have helped me discover who i am. even thought i still am attracted to hot guys like Channing Tatum & girls like Gisele (in my sigs). its awesome to have people out there like me xD

[UndecidedMatter]

im like that too only with girls.
i claim myself bi-curious.
which means im straight but willing to experminent with same sex.

[Peace God]

you sound a little bi to me...but as many people have said dont label yourself yet
would you consider having a relationship with another guy?
if so then you probably are(at least for now, things can change)

[Aspiringanonymous]

Please refrain from posting in threads more than one month old, thanks.. :locked: