Weird Experience That Night

[Pink-Floyd]

Well when i was at a friends party i went with my GirlFriend(Sarah), When we got there we basically got drunk etc. Then Like I was in a Room with my friends then i left and sat beside her, so i said lets go talk on the trampoline as soon as we got out there I like You Know JUst started making out with her, she didnt mind, After that we laid on the Trampoline, she said im going inside for a while, i said ok and stayed on the trampoline, Then My friend(Matt) came Rushing out and said sarah was kidding Jamie, So i quickly got up and went around the corner and saw them makin out, I walked straight up and Punched Jamie in the Back of the head, He was On The Ground for a little bit then ya know he kinda just crawled away abit, I Said to Sarah"What were u kissing that c*nt for", and She said Im sorry i was just having fun, Then I pushed into the wall and through her the ground, she started to cry, I shoved her up and said were going(Yelling), THen I dragged Her To Her House, About 2/5's way there she said i am sorry, then it ended up with her and me kissing against the fence, so we walked bak to the party, THen jamie came up to me and said "She loves me u know" I said" What Cunt" He repeated then I Said "How do u no that" And he said that she told her, then i walked away and found her, i told her wanted to talk to her, I took her around to the side of the house, and told her what jamie said, and she "just shut up about that ok" And I Hit Her :( , And Then That Night wen we were all sleeping In My Mates(The 1 have theparty, Linkens Room, It was a Tight squeeze, But we fit in there, Sarah was Sleeping with a Pillow and a Blanket on the Trampoline, I Crept out of the room and Went out side, I was approaching the tramp and she Shuttered, I said dont worry its Me, And She said thats wh y im scared, I said I was sorry and She just said "Its to late for that Now", So I guess My Dreams About Hitting A Girl Came true, I Posted my dreams As Unpleasent Dreams in relationships i guess, But it wasnt her I hit,

But Anyways, Im Stumped, The Next day she ignored me, So Now I dont know if wer still together, I guess not
:cry: , And Thats the Weirdest Experience ever, Ill Keep U Posted about whats going on between us :cry: :cry:

Sorry If u cant make any sence out of what i wrote

[r0x0row3nd]

thats happened to me be4 about same dream but instead of when i hit her she cried she got 1 of my friends to get aa bat and beat the shit out of me and then i stopped (cause gettin hit with a bat is fuckin painful)but then somethin else happened and thats another story

[Pink-Floyd]

But this isnt a dream, after a Couple days My Dream came true about hitting a girl, And Now I dont know if weree still together, But I might go see her today, Its Onlu 10:20 here so Ill see her about 2, then pot it were stil alright or what

[RowanVer.3.0]

Is it possible that your dream had an effect on reality other than vice versa? Think about it... When you dream, it becomes a part of your conciousness since you now know of that dream. When you're drunk your common sense is lowered. So.. Maybe you just thought of the dream in reality, or maybe now you were scared of it so it was in your mind and you did it.

Anyways, don't get drunk around girls anymore. You're gonna get yourself beat up. If I saw someone hit a girl I'd beat the shit out of them. You messed it up with her.... I wouldn't say it's fubar yet.... But, you can probably count on her not liking you anymore. Maybe even being a bit scared of you. Tell her that you'll never do it again. Never say "I'll try not to" that means the threats still upon her. Never do it again. If you have to, don't get drunk around her ever again.

[Pink-Floyd]

She isnt talking to me right now, I asked her if we were still going out, She said Ill think about it, thats all she said then closed the door on me

[ScotsGirl]

I dont agree with the fact that she made out with someone else or ...whatever she did, but... what you did is called assault.
I mean :? ...

Then I pushed into the wall and through her the ground, she started to cry, I shoved her up and said were going(Yelling), THen I dragged Her To Her House...

Why did you do that??
I know I dont know you but, you seem to talk about this like it is no big deal to do something like that. If I were her, I wouldnt go near you again...ever!
Sorry I just really dont agree with what you did to her and I'm not surprised she doesnt want to talk to you...are you, honestly? :?

And if I were you and my gf made out with someone in front of me (presuming that it is an exclusive relationship) then referred to it as "just having fun" or whatever, then I would have told her to go have some fun being single...

xxx

[r0x0row3nd]

ya mine was a dream mine came true but it happened differently i still have bruises ya shes right u did commit assualt and i wouldnt talk to u either so man go in your i guess ex gfs shoes man not kewl

[serial-thrilla]

haha sucks to be you. thats what you get for hitting a girl. that pisses me off. you are a coward. someone needs to knock some fuckin sence into you.

[Pink-Floyd]

The Weird thing is, She said ill think about it after what i did, Lol I wudnt see me ever again either if i was her

[serial-thrilla]

well at least you know what you did was stupid.

[RowanVer.3.0]

Yeah, if you weren't drunk, I'd be really pissed at you.. But since you were, it still doesn't make it right, but, you weren't in your right state of mind. And it was bothering you. Since you were dreaming of it right?

[r0x0row3nd]

u know what im sorry cuz i dont know u but to me that was wrong what u did so heres my advice tell ur gf to go take kratae lessons wiat till shes a black belt and try it again let me knoe what happens ok








well atleast she isnt getting ur best friend to get a bat and beat the shit out of u :D

[r0x0row3nd]

oh and stfu ir0x0rus0x0rlmao bitch

[serial-thrilla]

Yeah, if you weren't drunk, I'd be really pissed at you.. But since you were, it still doesn't make it right, but, you weren't in your right state of mind. And it was bothering you. Since you were dreaming of it right? that doesent matter. you arent in your right state of mind but you still have common sence. it was stupid if he was sober just as stupid if he was drunk.

[redcar]

under no circumstances do you ever lay a finger on a woman, ever.

[RowanVer.3.0]

I know, I didn't once say it was ok for him to hit the girl because he was drunk. But atleast he has an excuse, he was drunk. When you're drunk you don't have as much common sense. I won't have any remorse for him if his gf never wants to see him again. You just don't do it. If that happened around here someone would beat his ass in.

[redcar]

I know, I didn't once say it was ok for him to hit the girl because he was drunk. But atleast he has an excuse,

i am sorry but there is never an excuse to hit a woman, never. iff you get like that when u drink, then dont drink because it is simply unacceptable.

[r0x0row3nd]

ok srry to argue but ive have gotten like that 2 when i drank he shouldnt have to stop just dont drink so much but im all 4 gettin high at parties

[redcar]

ok srry to argue but ive have gotten like that 2 when i drank he shouldnt have to stop just dont drink so much but im all 4 gettin high at parties

did you hit a woman?

[r0x0row3nd]

yes but i she didnt cry..she got my best friend to get a bat and beat the living shit out of me...and i guess...i deserve it but we arent doin well together :cry: i alrdy made topics tellin wat happened so dont ask its 2 long and its confusing :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

[redcar]

yes but i she didnt cry..:

oh she didnt cry? u think that makes it better? if someone hit me i wouldnt cry, it shows weakness, she would to appear strong and to be frank u should stop coming up with excuses because there simply are none.

[r0x0row3nd]

wait up man i didnt leave a mark she gave me a fucking million bruises i was BLEEDING broke my leg and i didnt leave a mark on her well..my friend did it but hes easy to get to do somthin u want him to do but its her fault i broke my leg i had soccer champion and im the only 1 who can play goalie decently(we voted so dont argue about it) and we lossed so shut up i still have a bad arm and a lot of bruises and again i didnt leave a mark on her ok is that good enough or do u wanna talk to her urself cause she lives 2 houses away??? :evil:

[RowanVer.3.0]

Anyways, don't get drunk around girls anymore. You're gonna get yourself beat up. If I saw someone hit a girl I'd beat the shit out of them. You messed it up with her.... I wouldn't say it's fubar yet.... But, you can probably count on her not liking you anymore. Maybe even being a bit scared of you. Tell her that you'll never do it again. Never say "I'll try not to" that means the threats still upon her. Never do it again. If you have to, don't get drunk around her ever again.

I know. Don't hit girls. It's unacceptable. I agree. But still, he was drunk. I didn't really mean excuse as much as I meant cover up.

[redcar]

wait up man i didnt leave a mark

oh dont think you can start on me bitch, again with the excuses, you didnt leave a mark? so u think its ok to hit someone as long as no mark is made. and to be honest i dont care if you lost in football, because if i knew her loosing soccer would be the least of your worries. let me reiterate there is never any excuse to hit a woman, ever, period.

[ScotsGirl]

wait up man i didnt leave a mark she gave me a fucking million bruises i was BLEEDING broke my leg and i didnt leave a mark on her well..my friend did it but hes easy to get to do somthin u want him to do but its her fault i broke my leg i had soccer champion and im the only 1 who can play goalie decently(we voted so dont argue about it) and we lossed so shut up i still have a bad arm and a lot of bruises and again i didnt leave a mark on her ok is that good enough or do u wanna talk to her urself cause she lives 2 houses away???

It doesnt matter, you shouldnt have done what you did.
I dont agree with what she did either, but just because she did that, doesnt make what you did any less wrong...and it certainly doesnt justify it.

to be frank u should stop coming up with excuses because there simply are none.

Agreed!

xxx

[RowanVer.3.0]

I'd like to state where I stand, because I feel I'm being made out to be a villain here. I'd never hit a girl. I never have, never plan on. However, when you're drunk, sometimes you can't control yourself.

I know, it's no excuse, or not a good one. And it's possible not to hit when you're drunk. But come one. You're a teenager, you have raging horomones, you're drunk, you don't know what the fucks going on. You're angry. You shouldn't do it. And if I saw someone do it when they were drunk I'd kick their arse. But still. You can kind of relate to how they did it accidently.

Like, if I ever did when I was drunk, I'd probably cry over it the next day. It'd be a burden I'd carry to my grave. But, it's understandable that maybe they couldn't control themselves. I was kind of disturbed to how Sid-Vicious seemed to have little remorse for hitting her. But yeah, I was just trying to relate to Sid.

Anyways, just clearing things up.

[redcar]

I'd like to state where I stand, because I feel I'm being made out to be a villain here. I'd never hit a girl. I never have, never plan on. However, when you're drunk, sometimes you can't control yourself.

I know, it's no excuse, or not a good one. And it's possible not to hit when you're drunk. But come one. You're a teenager, you have raging horomones, you're drunk, you don't know what the fucks going on. You're angry. You shouldn't do it. And if I saw someone do it when they were drunk I'd kick their arse. But still. You can kind of relate to how they did it accidently.

Like, if I ever did when I was drunk, I'd probably cry over it the next day. It'd be a burden I'd carry to my grave. But, it's understandable that maybe they couldn't control themselves. I was kind of disturbed to how Sid-Vicious seemed to have little remorse for hitting her. But yeah, I was just trying to relate to Sid.

Anyways, just clearing things up.

rite you are digging yourself out of a hole, its best you dont say anything cause u are making yourself sound worse. there is never an excuse no matter if you are drunk or not never an excuse.

[RowanVer.3.0]

You know what man. Screw you mr.righteous.... Christ, this is what I get. I try to clear things up because everyones frowning upon me because I announce the well known fact that when you're drunk sometimes and usually, you can't control yourself. Especially if you're young, stupid and the like.

But whatever, I'm digging myself out of a hole. Awesome. See if I care what you think of me. I tried it the nice way, so don't say I tried to start shit with you. You just put on your sheriff hat when I lay my hand to shake. So this is what you get.

It's as if I was on the bad team then try and weasel myself into a good guy when I didn't even side with him in the first place.

[r0x0row3nd]

ok ok im sry i apologized ok? i went over to her house when i logged out k everythings kewl i know i was bein a dumbass ok? is that good enough she said she accepted ok ? i know it was wrong :(

[Pink-Floyd]

Rowan, Is Helping, Ur all helping, jesus Christ, U dont have to say whats his is saying is stupid

[serial-thrilla]

it is stupid. i have been drunk out of my mind before. i almost needed my stomach pumped. i have never ever hit a girl EVER

[RowanVer.3.0]

Hmm.. I bet when you were drunk a girl has done many many things to you that humiliate or angered you? Like.. Maybe cheated on you? etc.

I'm just trying to get his pov, don't sue me.

[serial-thrilla]

doesent matter, he couldve gone and made out with another girl. an eye for an eye. but instead he hit her. cheating is wrong, illegal? no. hitting is wrong, illegal yes.

[kolte]

when I went out with my ex we rough housed, like she would hit my arm and I'd hit hers. but like, out of anger I would never EVER hit a woman. some may say thats a forum of sexism in itself, but quite frankly, its not morally right at all. unless you are messing around, and being 'light' its not cool. but syd hit me hard somtimes, god I just wanted to say 'hey fucking stop' but then shed be like, 'pussy' so I'd just play tap her back. good times.

[Pink-Floyd]

Yer Serial Thrilla, I dont go round kissing other ppl and cheating,

[serial-thrilla]

Yer Serial Thrilla, I dont go round kissing other ppl and cheating, oh alright, but you go around hitting girls. fair enough

[Pink-Floyd]

What dont u shut up cunt and go some where else, U dont help at all u moron

[Pink-Floyd]

And i do relise this isnt a help-me situation

[Elokyn]

under no circumstances do you ever lay a finger on a woman, ever.

[Pink-Floyd]

U dont have to repeat what ppl say, i already read all the posts in here

[redcar]

You know what man. Screw you mr.righteous....

i am sorry if having morals and thinking hitting woman is so wrong.

What dont u shut up cunt and go some where else, U dont help at all u moron

you hit a girl and you are looking for help? you
have some cheek.

U dont have to repeat what ppl say, i already read all the posts in here

and dont start getting bitchy with her, she was simply voicing her opinion which so happened to be that of another poster, me.

[RowanVer.3.0]

You know what man. Screw you mr.righteous....

i am sorry if having morals and thinking hitting woman is so wrong.
.
You act as if you're some kind of saint. "He hit a girl while intoxicated and now he looks for help!? HA! Burn the heathen! Has his drunkeness no morals?!"

The guy made a mistake. He was drunk and now he's really sorry for it. Nobody is perfect. Atleast he acknowledges that what he's done is wrong.

[Whisper]

Alcohol BAD!

and i've been drunk
I had no intrest then nor have I ever in hitting a girl
hell i couldnt even walk straight

I'm not going to help him simply because i have NO IDEA HOW
there are some things that are unforgivable

[RowanVer.3.0]

Again, chances are your gf didn't cheat on you to your face while you were drunk. Maybe he's not as stable. I know, I don't think it's ok he hit her. I'm just saying, it doesn't seem like he tried to or wanted to hit her.

If he did, I take back all the defences I've done for him.

[redcar]

You act as if you're some kind of saint.

i am certainly no saint once again its called having morals.


Again, chances are your gf didn't cheat on you to your face while you were drunk.

do not use the fact that she cheated on him as an excuse, you are not understanding there is no excuse, never will be and alcohol is never an excuse you can use.

[RowanVer.3.0]

You act as if you're some kind of saint.

i am certainly no saint once again its called having morals.


Again, chances are your gf didn't cheat on you to your face while you were drunk.

do not use the fact that she cheated on him as an excuse, you are not understanding there is no excuse, never will be and alcohol is never an excuse you can use.
You're right, even saints sometimes break their morals by accident. I didn't say it was ok that he hit her! There is no excuse! But please, please, oh lord, tell me what good bitching at him now that he's already done it going to do!?! NOTHING... That's what. Nothing.

You call me ignorant, say I don't get your point. Well, you know what, I do. I agree with it. You don't hit girls! Tell me something I don't know! But, 500 people bitching at him for doing it isn't going to help him one bit.... That girl shouldn't forgive him, if she does, then she's either stupid or has faith. Shouldn't we tell him that he shouldn't ever do it again rather than calling him down because he did it? I guess not apparently.. you guys would all rather feed your egos proving that you're a true gentlemen instead of telling him why you don't hit girls.

[redcar]

You're right, even saints sometimes break their morals by accident. I didn't say it was ok that he hit her! There is no excuse! But please, please, oh lord, tell me what good bitching at him now that he's already done it going to do!?! NOTHING... That's what. Nothing.


the point of me "bitching" is too make crystal clear that hitting a woman is 100% totally wrong and there is never ever an excuse.


You call me ignorant

when did i call you ignorant?


Shouldn't we tell him that he shouldn't ever do it again rather than calling him down because he did it?

no we shouldnt because that should be a given, wat i am doing is getting across how socially unacceptable this is and will not be tolerated.


you guys would all rather feed your egos proving that you're a true gentlemen instead of telling him why you don't hit girls.

mmm no, we are not proving anything just stating the obvious, you never hit a woman.

[serial-thrilla]

What dont u shut up cunt and go some where else, U dont help at all u moron fuck you, you piece of shit. your a coward. you hit a girl, someone not nearly as strong as you. and you didnt even do it out of defence. you just hit her cuz she kissed another guy. so yeah i hope someone beats the shit out of you. and trust me i wouldve been the first to do if i was there.

[nwshc]

hitting a woman is 100% totally wrong and there is never ever an excuse.

kissing another guy when you are in a commited relationship is also 100% wrong :/

[redcar]

hitting a woman is 100% totally wrong and there is never ever an excuse.

kissing another guy when you are in a commited relationship is also 100% wrong :/

i never said that wasnt, but its not an excuse to hit her, cause there is never any excuse that justifies it.

[serial-thrilla]

hitting a woman is 100% totally wrong and there is never ever an excuse.

kissing another guy when you are in a commited relationship is also 100% wrong :/ well its not always wrong. if a woman came up to me with a knife id knock her out in a heartbeat, but in his situation he was not in any danger.

[redcar]

when i say its 100% wrong i am talking about in situations where there is no weapon or basically any danger posed.

[r0x0row3nd]

now ive thought of somthin all u femenists now....wat if a guy murdered a woman hes go to jail or die ok but would it be worse if a woman killed a guy no so neither is better nor worse....so i mean its not like he killed any1 he did do it and it was wrong but wat if the girl hit him with something i dont know a...baseball bat and she posted this would u be bailing on her i dont really no if u would or wouldnt but put that into ur head.... would u even care is it was the girl hitting him? so we all know that he did somthing wrong i mean its kinda natural every human does somthing wrong every1 here has done somthing wrong maybe not as bad or maybe worse im not taking anysides so dont yell at me 4 stating wat i think i just want to get that through to all of u ok? oh and my gf (who i swear to god is typing)"Its not good but its not as bad as ive seen some teenagers do i mean ive seen people holding guns at thier gfs and they were like 16 so he didnt commit the worst asault"

[ScotsGirl]

I'm just saying, it doesn't seem like he tried to or wanted to hit her.

Did you even read his post? I mean...if he didnt want to hit her he has a funny way of showing it :?
"Then I pushed into the wall and through her the ground, she started to cry, I shoved her up and said were going(Yelling), THen I dragged Her To Her House..."

That isnt the kind of thing that happens unless you want it to and you make it... and that isnt even at the part where he hit her :?




Shouldn't we tell him that he shouldn't ever do it again rather than calling him down because he did it?

no we shouldnt because that should be a given, wat i am doing is getting across how socially unacceptable this is and will not be tolerated.


Rowan, even addmitted yourself that you were surprised how little remorse he seems to be showing:
I was kind of disturbed to how Sid-Vicious seemed to have little remorse for hitting her.
...so by letting him know that there is no excuse (not even being drunk or because she cheated) for what he did, we are helping him.

You're a teenager, you have raging horomones, you're drunk, you don't know what the fucks going on. You're angry. You shouldn't do it. And if I saw someone do it when they were drunk I'd kick their arse. But still. You can kind of relate to how they did it accidently.

I agree, sometimes it can happen accidentaly but...
If he didnt know what he was doing and he was really that drunk, how on earth would he rememeber everything??
I have been in that state and there is no way that I would have been able to do what he did and still remember i had done it all. Alcohol affects your memory, your coordination, your vision...need i go on? He explained everything in order as it happened, which he would not have been able to do if he had been so drunk he didnt know what he was doing.


would u even care is it was the girl hitting him?

r0x0row3nd, I already said to you I dont agree with what your gf did to you. Any kind of violence like that is wrong. But this is about the fact that the original poster assaulted his gf....he has never mentioned that she hit him. (and even if he had, then that still wouldnt take anything away from the fact that what he did is inexcusable! )

Its not good but its not as bad as ive seen some teenagers do i mean ive seen people holding guns at thier gfs and they were like 16 so he didnt commit the worst asault"

Oh right...so ill just go and shoot a guy then turn around to you all and say, well i know what i did wasnt good but, i could have bombed the shopping centre and killed a whole heap of people, so what i did isnt the worst!
:roll:

I dont know what else to say except repeat what ive already said. Some people seem set on the fact that Sid has an excuse because he was drunk or because his gf cheated...but as others have already stated: there is no excuse!

I dont know how else to help you Sid except tell you to maybe think about whether or not you have anger problems that you could get help with. Frankly, I think it is your gf that is in more need of help.
I hope she has sense to stay away from you until you have managed to think things through and maybe get help or...I dont know.
I hope things work out for you Sid, and I hope you dont put anyone else through what you put your gf through...

xxx

[r0x0row3nd]

dont yell at me about the worst thing shit that wasnt me and i alrdy tried to tell u i dont feel like arguing 2 much today i said wat i thought was a reasonable answer or did u not get my point :arrow: ?? u wanna bitch to som1 talk to who wrote it god damit! im not in the mose 4 ur bull shit read it again that last part did i say i wrote that???? so go piss off i have enough shit in my life now i dont need ur femenist bullshit ok ? u all said wat u thought was good i cant do the same??? im g2g but i guess ill be back to listen to more bullshit from people who have fun out of making me angry and any1 else who wants to question wat i said :evil: stfu kiss my ass :twisted:

[redcar]

dont yell at me about the worst thing shit that wasnt me and i alrdy tried to tell u i dont feel like arguing 2 much today i said wat i thought was a reasonable answer or did u not get my point :arrow: ?? u wanna bitch to som1 talk to who wrote it god damit! im not in the mose 4 ur bull shit read it again that last part did i say i wrote that???? so go piss off i have enough shit in my life now i dont need ur femenist bullshit ok ? u all said wat u thought was good i cant do the same??? im g2g but i guess ill be back to listen to more bullshit from people who have fun out of making me angry and any1 else who wants to question wat i said :evil: stfu kiss my ass :twisted:

oh no you didnt!! dont talk to her in that fashion, u dont have any right to do that, and you are seriously stepping over the line.

[ScotsGirl]

dont yell at me about the worst thing shit that wasnt me and i alrdy tried to tell u i dont feel like arguing 2 much today i said wat i thought was a reasonable answer or did u not get my point :arrow: ?? u wanna bitch to som1 talk to who wrote it god damit! im not in the mose 4 ur bull shit read it again that last part did i say i wrote that???? so go piss off i have enough shit in my life now i dont need ur femenist bullshit ok ? u all said wat u thought was good i cant do the same??? im g2g but i guess ill be back to listen to more bullshit from people who have fun out of making me angry and any1 else who wants to question wat i said :evil: stfu kiss my ass :twisted:

Jeez...calm down dude
Whats with the insults?
I made a simple point to you saying that I agree with you that your gf shouldnt have done what she did and, that this whole thread is about the orginal poster assaulting his gf, not about girls hitting guys/guys hitting girls in general...

And im sorry if you felt i was unfair with my comment about what Sid did not being the worst assault.
If you didnt write it, fair enough, I apologise to you if you felt my comment was directed at you, it was directed at the writer.

xxx

[nwshc]

And im sorry if you felt i was unfair with my comment about what Sid did not being the worst assault.
If you didnt write it, fair enough, I apologise to you if you felt my comment was directed at you, it was directed at the writer.
eww, don't appologize to that maggot

[r0x0row3nd]

my bad im just a little stressed out i should apologize srry and shut up man the "ewwww" very unessecary oh and i guess im a insect now "maggot" :lol:

[r0x0row3nd]

im confused? whos lynne and alex???? :? and i alrdy apologized and said she didnt have to it was me and that im just a little stressed out i dont know of anything else to do at the moment?

[nwshc]

my bad im just a little stressed out i should apologize srry and shut up man the "ewwww" very unessecary
you being born wasn't nessecary either
oh and i guess im a insect now "maggot" :lol:
You are.

[redcar]

im confused? whos lynne and alex???? :? and i alrdy apologized and said she didnt have to it was me and that im just a little stressed out i dont know of anything else to do at the moment?

i'm Alex ans ScotGirl is Lynne

[RowanVer.3.0]

Jeeze, I think some people are forgetting, this topic isn't a debate whether it's right to hit girls. It isn't right to. No further argument.

He shouldn't of hit her. He did. End of discussion. But we don't have to get so angry at the guy like he's some kind of worthless piece of shit just because he lost his cool...

To be dead honest, I've wanted to hit my mom so bad once, she was being such a bitch and so unfair. I started getting so angry. Tears of rage started rolling down my face because the anger kept bubbling up like the fizz in a pop bottle-until, boom, there goes the lid... She kept nagging, I clenched my fist and punched the fridge breaking it and my hand. That was just horomones alone. No alcohal involved. I lost my cool and was going to do the unthinkable.

Sometimes it's harder than you think to keep your morals. You may think that it's a load of bullognae now, but, when that moment comes you can hardly control it. And it's so much easier to give in. So much more satisfying.

I'm not saying that was the case here, hell, maybe sid-vicious is going to be a rampant woman beater, that's not my place to say. But it is my place to say, it happens. And, just because someone loses their cool it doesn't mean they're some kind of chav slime ball(again, maybe Sid doesn't care that he hit her).

And, don't even think that I'm trying to dig my way out of a hole... What hole? There is no hole. Seriously, don't flatter yourself. I don't respect you nearly enough to go out of my way to try and get on your good side :roll:

[Whisper]

Okay i'm 18yrs old
I've been through a hell of allot of shit
and I have NEVER hit a girl EVER
do you know why? because its fucking wrong!
Were bigger, were stronger, our pain tolerence is higher and our bodies even our brains evolved to take allot more blows then a girls can befor serious damage is caused
Its a fact, evolution

Have I ever been severly pissed? hell yea!! I've been furious to the point where I would be vibrating uncontrolably, i'd start crying, i'd get tunnel vision, I'd have so much adrenaline pumping through my body it felt like my veins were on fire, I didn't give a fuck if I got cut or punched or fell or w/e cause I couldnt feel the pain just the hatred, it would rush over me like a fucking wave.
Thats probably why i've gotten hurt so many times because when I used to get mad I would do some really reckles shit
I didnt care
The pain didn't phase me

But I NEVER hit a girl
and I NEVER thought about hitting my mum, shes hit and thrown heavy shit at me many times when I was young (usually she was drunk)
And I never got into a serious fight with my sisters
we would rough house all the time
but never punched
and Katie is the closest out of the 2 to my age, shes 3yrs older
So befor I hit puberty she was bigger, stronger and faster then me
I still never punched her or anything like that

When my dad was a lil older then me one of his friends bitch slapped a girl
My dad broke his nose and through him threw a window befor calling the police
you do NOT hit girls

I garuntee you that if I had seen him do that
Or if I see anyone do that period
I'll have them down befor they knew what hit'em
and if they get up again they'll need an ambulance to get up a second time

Hitting girls
Is unnaceptable
plain and simple

Now he was NOT drunk because not only does his memory seem to be perfect
But at the time he seemed to be able to talk fine and obivously his balance was perfect
I don't know about you but when i'm drunk
I have a hell of a hard time just walking straight
Never mind doing all the things he so easily did that night
He wasent drunk

So you know what
Fuck him
she should leave his ass
espically since he feels no remorse
and if I was her i'd have called the cops at the time and pressed charges aswell

[r0x0row3nd]

well... i dont wanna take sides either and oh and i have a good reason to have lost it but its not an excuse let me say that before i tell u remember the soccer (or in like europe football just incase) i was gonna win money to buy her a present cause my other money was going towards my grandma's operation and if she didnt have it she would almost %100 die in a few days and she only has a %40 chance now better than 100 and i wouldnt have a gig with band 4 awhile so...i needed to buy my gf a gift but i didnt win had no money so now i have to borrow money which i hate to do because they always say i borrowed more than i did to get money. but its a last resort BUT....noew my gf and i r well.. not so great :( and its not cause of the me hitting her were ok with that so this isnt an excuse i did it and still rowan is right its not a debate i just wanted to say this so.. i actually agree with most of wat rowan said except for the hit his mom thing

[r0x0row3nd]

i didnt say i was buyin her out.. try to read i was gonna buy her a christmas prezent dude but were not doin well im kinda stressed out just warning u so if i lash 4 somthin small....well...i guess just yell back like usuall ok i wasnt buyin her out man i was gonna buy her a prezent 4 christmas not cause i want her to forgive me..4 me hitting her man were kewl with thatt im gonna cut back on drinks when shes at the party 2 or not drink at all either or i reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaally dont wanna fight today or get yelled at 2 much i had a really bad day so dont make it worse

[nwshc]

our pain tolerence is higher
Tis not true
Women can withstand more pain for longer periods of time
Example: Men would pass out from the pain of giving birth

[Whisper]

our pain tolerence is higher
Tis not true
Women can withstand more pain for longer periods of time
Example: Men would pass out from the pain of giving birth

Hun thats INTERNAL pain its diffrent

according to studies men can take more external pain then women can and they can take more internal then we can.

[serial-thrilla]

as long as you arent in a dangerous situation and if you dont hit a girl you will get seriously hurt then just dont do it. you can scream in theyre face, cheat on them. just dont hit them, its not cool. not that the others are cool but theyre cooler then hitting them.

[r0x0row3nd]

???not really??? there just as bad i mean if u cheat on her shes most likely gonna hate u if u ht her she'll again most likely hate u ??so i dont see how any of thoose r good i mean why do any of them??

[redcar]

???not really??? there just as bad i mean if u cheat on her shes most likely gonna hate u if u ht her she'll again most likely hate u ??so i dont see how any of thoose r good i mean why do any of them??

wat he was saying is that cheating is the lesser of two evils.

[r0x0row3nd]

ok but still why do any is my question i should know why i hit my gf but.. im stumpped i guess that puts me at lvl.....jackass to most people.. but i guess(its a GUESS) any fued would be over......now?

[dude101]

dude not saying that beating your girlfriend up is right but still she totally cheated on u and u punched her or whatever so really u both are to blame for your little sprawl. i can see where she is coming from but u really need to talk to her and dont let her go now if u still love her !

[redcar]

dude not saying that beating your girlfriend up is right but still she totally cheated on u and u punched her or whatever so really u both are to blame for your little sprawl. i can see where she is coming from but u really need to talk to her and dont let her go now if u still love her !

sorry i have to disagree with you there, she is not to blame for him hitting her. thats a terrible thing to say its like saying she was asking for it by cheating on him.

[Whisper]

Personally in all honesty it sounds like they both severly fucked up
but her cheating on him did not give him the right to hit her
hitting a girl for any reason is unnaceptable
the only time i'd ever attack a girl is if she threatened to kill me (like was pointing a gun at me, etc..) or harm my child
cause...i'd take that personally

But anything less then that
you dont ever harm even a hair on a girls head EVER

See if I was her I wouldnt be able to trust that he wouldnt hurt me again next time i pissed him off
I mean he can say he wont but actions speak louder then words

and if i was him....I dont handle betrayal well
so personally i'd want nuthin to do with her
period
because I have no idea how many people shes cheated on me with
if she'll keep doing it
if she even cares about me or if i'm nuthing but a toy
a dude that buys her shit
no i would leave her
but thats me

[r0x0row3nd]

ia every1 here a femenist? i mean u make hitting a girl actually worse than hitting a man! its the same thats called sexism some people think that if a white man hits a black man thats a hate crime but vise versa is ok..bullshit thats racism some girls kick ass i mean u ever seen like a ... bowflex comercial there BUFF! they have more of a six pack then most men so thats bullshit i dont really wanna argue but thats my opinion hitting a girl is no less wrong than hitting a man really all violence is wrong but that will never stop violence is nature but that is pretty much sexism i believe that women should be = to men treated the same paid the same amount and no more ladies 1st shit and its just as bad as hitting a man its = to hitting a woman if women wanna be treated the same (which i do belive in) it shouldnt have to be a bigger deal when they get hit then if we get hit thats my opinoin and im stickin to it

[redcar]

i mean u make hitting a girl actually worse than hitting a man!

thats cause it is, and i am not going to get into an argument with u just because u clearly cant see that it is.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

Personally in all honesty it sounds like they both severly fucked up
but her cheating on him did not give him the right to hit her


hahaha of course it does i woulda smacked the shit outta her if i were him

[Whisper]

Then your a fucking asswipe
thats my opinion and i'm sticking to it

A guy hitting a guy is one thing
I don't give a fuck about skin color
if a girl hits a girl fuck have at it
but dude speaking out of an average girls are not as strong as guys
its not sexist
its a biological fact and to say that thats sexist is like saying that its sexist to say men can't have periods
its incompitent!

A guy hitting a girl IS ALLOT WORSE then a guy hitting another guy

and I have zero problem fighting you about that
because i'm right
its wrong
plain and simple
Just like it is completly unacceptable to attack a kid
I know that because I was beatten for four fucking years
My mum was beatten every day when she was a kid by her dad
and I knew a girl that was killed when her dad beat her to death

any guy that hits a girl or child makes him a pathedic coward!
to weak to control himself even at a basic level!
and to scared to fight someone his own size!!
Not worth of pitty nor empathy

~xXx~

[serial-thrilla]

in some cases i would beat the shit out of a girl. if she killed anyone who was close to me friends/family.or if she cheated on me while we were married with children

[redcar]

in some cases i would beat the shit out of a girl. if she killed anyone who was close to me friends/family.or if she cheated on me while we were married with children

sorry cant agree with you on the second one, by doing that you become as bad as her and worse. if you did something like that she could take you to court and take your children and you mite never see them again, then you become the father who beat their mother, and mothers have a great ablity of turning turning their children against fathers. and courts generally always side with the mother.

[serial-thrilla]

i wouldnt care if its right or not. if someone hurt me that badly i would lose it.