Masturbation method

[ellenna123]

I'm an 18year old girl and am worried that the way I masterbate is abnormal.

When I was about 13 yrs old, I came across my old baby bouncer (the type that hangs from door frames and lets babies boing up and down). Out of curiosity I hung the thing up and cut a long story short ended up sitting naked in it and having the most amazing orgasm.

It was so good that I ended up making some modifications to the bouncer (i.e. a bigger harness) and used it more and more to enjoy myself.

I've recently stopped using the bouncer in favour of a more sturdy set up of a home made harness hanging from the beams in my parents attic. I don't know why I have such great orgasms when using it, but I can't match the feeling I get bouncing and swinging in the thing!

Its difficult to describe exactly how it works for me, but hopefully you get the idea. Anyway, I know this is not a normal way to orgasm and think I would like to stop, but only if I can recreate the feeling in another way. Especially as the beam I've connected it to is creaking a bit under my weight and I'm worried I might be too big for it.

I haven't discussed this with any of my friends as I'm worried they will just think it is plain weird. I'd be interested to hear if anyone has had any similar experiences and offer any advice please...or am I just abnormal?!

Thanx,
Ellie.

[byee]

hi Ellie! I AM SAM, resident knowitall and good guy (not in that order). Let me see if I can help.

As long as whatever you're doing/using/contemplating doing isn't physically dangerous to you, it's OK. You've found a very creative way to achieve what seems to be great satisfaction, with no real down side here, so it does sound OK.

There are no rules about masturbation (or sexual gratification, ftm), so whatever works for you (as long as it's not dangerous) is really OK. Everyone has their own technique or style, and yours is just highly creative.

As an FYI, and FWIW, it seems that the brighter and more creative the indivdual in general, the more adventurous they are sexually (and probably with a lot of other things, too), so I hardly doubt that what you're doing here is either 'abnormal', or indicative of anything other than your other above average abilities.

[Zan0ra]

I agree with sam, it isnt wierd at all. I wouldnt go telling your freinds that as they might put you down a little. but heck even I have wanted to do that. (but I am not going to give out the details cause my version is slightly more erm..strange and thus uncomfortaqble to say.)

[Archer600]

if it works for u then dont stop

[ellenna123]

Thanks for your comments!!

Its nice to know you don't think its that weird. I really dont want to stop as I do get a lot of enjoyment from it. I'm sure I'll have to stop using it one day, but for now I'd like to carry on.

I suppose the only problem I have is getting caught by my parents, or them discovering the "equipment" that I use. That and the chance I might pull the ceiling in! Does anyone have any idea how stong rafters are?? Woodwork never was my favourite subject!

Its good to have a place to discuss this -keeping it a secret for so long has been difficult so I appreciate your comments.

[Zan0ra]

well if the sealing comes through you could say it just fell through. Parents on the other hand can be a major issue.