View Full Version : a serious question.. i need help
nomatty
January 1st, 2009, 02:28 PM
one night recently i was watching telly in bed and got bored so i start to masterbate but fell a sleep with it hanging out of my boxers with the cover off.
while i was sleeping i had this sex dream which felt like somebody was sucking my cock and the cumming part felt so real.
when i woke up my dick was in my boxers, the cover was back on and my dick was all sticky.
im not sure if my mum gave me a blowjob in the night. what do u think, and what should i do about it
and please be serious
thiscityisdead
January 1st, 2009, 02:38 PM
I SERIOUSLY DOUBT YOUR MOM WOULD DO THAT, it was prolly a wet dream and you got cold and pulled the covers back on =P
Requin
January 1st, 2009, 02:51 PM
ummmm, no. I honestly do not believe that, I can't believe that you believe it either.
Well your penis would be sticky because you masturbated before falling asleep, or you could of had a wet dream in the night? It's a possibility.
nomatty
January 1st, 2009, 03:29 PM
but i wank quite frequently, but didnt finish that night
Underground_Network
January 1st, 2009, 03:41 PM
^^ I've had extremely intimate (and "real-feeling") sexual dreams that have caused me to cum in my sleep. I'm not even sure they were true "wet dreams". That might have been what happened to you. I HIGHLY doubt that your mom gave you a blow job in your sleep...
Requin
January 1st, 2009, 03:42 PM
Ahhh, why didn't I think of that???
Yes, that is a much more logical explanation for the sitckyness etc
Atonement
January 1st, 2009, 04:02 PM
While you are laying in bed falling asleep, you often will wake up to a point of moving and acting, but not consciousness, so, if you simply had a nocturnal emission, and while asleep, pulled your covers on to warm up or something, its really not that far out there. I would be hard pressed to find any logical way to pin this on your mom. That's just too far out there.
nomatty
January 1st, 2009, 04:45 PM
but she didnt wake me up as usual, like embarrasment??
and i was liying in this bunkbed with a gap which she can easily reach
and if it was a pre cum there would have been more not just a trace like after a wank or blowjob.
Oblivion
January 1st, 2009, 04:48 PM
but she didnt wake me up as usual, like embarrasment??
and i was liying in this bunkbed with a gap which she can easily reach
and if it was a pre cum there would have been more not just a trace like after a wank or blowjob.
I honestly doubt your mom gave you a blowjob.
The way you are defending almost makes it seem like you want it to be true
It was most likely a wet dream, and maybe she forgot to wake you up.
You pulled the covers over you when you got cold.
nomatty
January 1st, 2009, 04:53 PM
hhmm ok but it is believed that a wet dream occurs when sperm is stored with the testicals and is less likely to happen with the amount of wanking
LKSora
January 1st, 2009, 06:41 PM
NO WAY
you just had a wet-dream
when i had some i thought they happened in reality but they didn't
also when you sleep you do soem things without thinking
like covering yourself if you're uncovered
well whatever happened i doubt your mom did that
byee
January 1st, 2009, 07:35 PM
What a frightening thought, your mum doing that! I wonder where that would come from, do you have some other issues trusting her?
In the absence of that, I'd say you had a very vivid dream, those happen, and it's hard sometimes to distinguish dream states from actual reality. The brain is a pretty sophisticated organ, it can conjure things up pretty realistically! But, unless there's other issues with mum concerning trust, then i'd say that you had a vivid dream, nothing more.
kniwtohynroh
January 2nd, 2009, 03:15 AM
actually, you feel that u are cumming is because u are having wet dream
crisper99
June 19th, 2009, 04:07 PM
you probably had a wet dream
wet dreams seem real, and you move around alot. you probably pulled the cover over your self
metallicamaniac
June 19th, 2009, 06:24 PM
I think I would wake up if I was getting head while sleeping.
bowlheadhere
June 19th, 2009, 08:22 PM
Theory 1-
This could be because of the extent of the specific sex dream. Dreams can push people to go through a lot of emotions and sometimes physical feeling depending upon the dream and the person. For example, some people have severe dreams (such as them dying or something that they are incredibly terrified of), and they will wake up sweating with a really high pulse. This is usually seen in people who have a patern of dreams in which they seem as though they are living through their dreams (I know that was worded funny). For example (reguarding people experiencing real dreams), some people will talk in their sleep and explain everything they are experiencing (kind of like hypnosis), and if you interupt or talk to them, the message will replay in their mind and they physically act out what they do in response to what you say. Their is a physical condition for this, but I am not quite sure what it is called (my friend has it). This same concept applies to this story/inncodent. Your dream could have just been so intense that it seemed as though it was real.
Reguarding why cuming felt "so real", this could be similar to the concept of hands free masterbation. Don't mark me on this, because I am not entirely positive about this due to lack of experience, but most males who have experienced and accomplished hands free masterbation say that it causes some of the most intense orgasms they have ever had. With these two concept in mind (hands free masterbation and reguarding the soverity of the dream listed above), it can be directly connected with your incodent. The sensation could have been so intense, that although feelings are masked when your body is at rest, the sensation could have appeared to be extremely powerful or real.
Finally, to address why your clothes/blanket were the way they were when you woke up. Before you can understand the logic behind this, you must understand that during your sleep you tend to get colder than you would when you are awake because your body is conserving as much energy as possible, therefore only running key vitals. With this said, your skin is not getting the propper levels of blood to move your skin and trap in heat. With the understanding that you are colder than when you are awake, your body will make slight movements to try and retain as much heat as possible, while using as little energy as possible. After sleeping with a blanket for your entire life, and with clothes on, your body unconsciously remembered that you have such ways of heating yourself, therefore chose such ways to heat up your body. So you unconsciously put on your own clothes and blanket. For example, on warm summer nights, you may fall asleep without a blanket on, but you will usually end up with it on you when you wake up. This can be applied to this situation.
Theory 2-
When you were really tired, you could have actually masterbated all the way to orgasm, but been so tired that it seemed as though it was a dream. Then you could have unconsciously put on your clothes and fallen asleep. If you had not fallen asleep, it could have been explained by you passing out and continued to sleep after you passed out. (In other words, you passed out after you masterbated, and just continued to sleep.) This is not uncommon with teens our age, for some experience such strong orgasms that they black out.
If you do not quite understand this, you can either chose to ignore it, reread it, or ask questions about it, but please don't give me crap for this. These are just theories backed up with some evidence and experiences of myself/others reguarding human interactions when sleeping. I am just here to help and give what I think could have happened. Please don't give me crap for it if you dont like what i had to say.
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