Flat Chested, HELP

[pal.emilie]

Hi

I am 13 years old

im COMPLETELY flat chested when all my friends are... developed.

PLEASE HELP ME!

I'm soooo uncomfortable in bathing suits and I HATE gym class even thought im an athletic girl. It's the changing part I hate.

I'm so uncomfortable, it's CRAZY.

And I'll never have a boyfriend because the first thing they look at is the size of girls breasts.


Any tips? I'm DESPERATE!

[Denise]

all i can say is that, everyones different, everyone has different body shapes, and everyone goes through puberty at different times. as a matter of fact, most girls are more insecure with their body when they do develop curves. about the boyfriend thing, that's not true, and even if it was. would it be worth having one if all he wants you for is your breasts?

[Sapphire]

You are only 13. Give your body time!

Guys do not all look for breasts first. And if that is all a guy is interested in then you are better off without him because he is just interested in one thing!

[BeautifulSilence]

13 is so young. As soon as your breasts start to develop [probably in the early stages - not too noticable] they will be changing throughout your whole life! You are going to worry a load more about them when you aren't flat chested. Girls always think that their boobs could always be improved, like size, roundness, firmness etc.

Having boobs ain't all it's cracked up to be, either. Want reasons? When you start get bigger, you're going to need to buy bigger tops. Bras can be quite pricey, especially when you change size within a few weeks. They get in the way of some sports. When they are growing, it'll hurt to lie down on your front or getting tight hugs etc. Lots of girls get stretch marks on theirs. You'll think that one is massively bigger than the other -when it's hardly noticable.

I say to you: wait, because everyone develops differently and you've got loads of time left to be paranoid. So just enjoy having nothing until something comes along :)

[Jean Poutine]

And I'll never have a boyfriend because the first thing they look at is the size of girls breasts.

Not true.

Take it from a guy.

[Axle]

Not true.

Take it from a guy.

Same.

[notsure101]

First off...... all guys dont look at boob size straight off the bat unless he is just interested for their body. But your only 13 just give it some time, and with the changing in gym where some kind of undershirt IF possible

[Requin]

Your only 13!!!! 13 is sooo young...if you haven't got that from what the others have said. :-)

THe girls at my school weren't all developed at 13..most weren't in fact, so there's no need to have a panic attack about it...
Now I'm not an expert on boobs (isn't that a suprise!) but occording to Laura (Beautiful Silence) there not all that it's cracked up to be.

And don't get confused with the boy stereotype, we don't all look at boobs on a girl.
There just part of the entire goddess like features of a women....that we all admire, or at least we all should do. :-)

[SLABBS]

Hi

I am 13 years old

im COMPLETELY flat chested when all my friends are... developed.

PLEASE HELP ME!

I'm soooo uncomfortable in bathing suits and I HATE gym class even thought im an athletic girl. It's the changing part I hate.

I'm so uncomfortable, it's CRAZY.

And I'll never have a boyfriend because the first thing they look at is the size of girls breasts.


Any tips? I'm DESPERATE!

hey, not all men like big breasts. i for one like flat chestedness. its kinda cute. just wait, youll eventualy grow some breasts but for now you just have to take advantage of it somehow.

[apples]

Boys don't look at girls breast
I don't care the size of them
I actually don't like if they are to big.

[AllThatIsLeft]

There is nothing to worry about,
i have a friend who is flat chested and she can rock anything you put on her.
she is so comfortable with herself boys naturally come to her. and they love how she's not all self-conscious about her size.

There is always padding, but girl if you just love yourself how you are people will love you to.

Boobs will come, and is better if they come later on. i assure you those with big breast earlier will have to worry a lot sooner about stretch marks and them falling.

Be comfortable with who you are and boys will look at you.

[Rach x]

I'm 13 too but I'm well developed. Im a 32C already. Its normal not to be developed yet. A lot of my friends are flat. Everybody is different!

[Eagle1]

personally i like flat chested girls im weird i know :lol:

[alsoknownas]

Not true.

Take it from a guy.

again fm me size is not an issue

[aussie._pride_.]

hey hey
im 13... coz im a bigger girl my boobs are bigger..
(im a 16B aussie size)
ur 13 mate, they will grow dnt u wurry!!
boobs always grow and one day the guys will be all over u ;)
yes i hoped tht helped

[Halibut]

you will grow into it. every person is diffrent. and if the guy is worth it. the size of your boobs will not matter to him!

[Koyo]

I dont care if you flat chested, thoughs who do, you shouldnt care about.

[Affliction]

yeah my bf doesnt care how big mine are and your only 13 give it time :D

[unwritten_mariposa09]

Hi

I am 13 years old

im COMPLETELY flat chested when all my friends are... developed.

PLEASE HELP ME!

I'm soooo uncomfortable in bathing suits and I HATE gym class even thought im an athletic girl. It's the changing part I hate.

I'm so uncomfortable, it's CRAZY.

And I'll never have a boyfriend because the first thing they look at is the size of girls breasts.



Any tips? I'm DESPERATE!



when I was around 13 I bearly got my period. So chill girl. You are still growing. They will grow. I was a bearly A when i started then, now I am a 36B. and also the guys do not look at the breasts. they do but that is not wat counts. They like how you are not how you look like. not all guys are like that. I had at least 3 boyfriends I have 36B, thats avearge size. :)

[Viral Death]

Really I am not a picky guy and I really dont care if you are flat chested I have dated flat chested girls you will grow dont push it

[beautiful.bby]

Don't worry,
You're just a late bloomer,
alot of girls are.
Guys may seem that all they care about are boobs & butts,
but they also care about your personality.

[Common Black]

Hi

I am 13 years old

im COMPLETELY flat chested when all my friends are... developed.

PLEASE HELP ME!

I'm soooo uncomfortable in bathing suits and I HATE gym class even thought im an athletic girl. It's the changing part I hate.

I'm so uncomfortable, it's CRAZY.

And I'll never have a boyfriend because the first thing they look at is the size of girls breasts.


Any tips? I'm DESPERATE!

Gave yourself more time :) Trust me big breasts can suck, i wish i had smaller breasts. I know over fifty people who didn't have boyfriends when they were 13 as well so don't think your abnormal there either. Give everything some time. And only the bad guys judge a girl by her breast size :)

[Affliction]

dont worry ur jsut a late bloomer there just being childish =]

[SapphireDragon13]

Hi

I am 13 years old

im COMPLETELY flat chested when all my friends are... developed.

PLEASE HELP ME!

I'm soooo uncomfortable in bathing suits and I HATE gym class even thought im an athletic girl. It's the changing part I hate.

I'm so uncomfortable, it's CRAZY.

And I'll never have a boyfriend because the first thing they look at is the size of girls breasts.


Any tips? I'm DESPERATE!


In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with being flat-chested at 13 years old, because at the moment, I am almost 16 and have the same problem, which is probably considerably worse than your situation, because I get harassed all the time for it. Lol. Well, anyways just be patient, everything will be alright in the end. :) I hope that helps...

~Jenelle

[Oblivion]

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