I have a question

[ThatDude93]

What are you if you aren't sexually attracted to men or women, but you want a girlfriend. And eventually you want to get married and have kids.

[Θάνατος]

Well you will go through stages where you are just really busy and don't find time for thinking about sex.

I know when I am really busy in the middle of a sports season sometimes I can go days without thinking about sex.

Don't worry you are fine it happens to everyone once in a while.

[ThatDude93]

I guess this is sort of a question about sexual orientation w/o sexual attraction

[Requin]

Read this and find out, it's the best guide - http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=18215

[byee]

The answer to your q, JWB, is that you're just a kid.

Things like attraction and stuff take some time to sort out and understand, it's all new. Like anything new, it takes time to get accustomed to it, and very often, the way that happens is very gradually. So, for you, you might be more aware of the gradualness of it, it's not a 'Bang! There it is!' thing.

Just get out there, spend some time with people and see what happens and try not to jump to conclusions. You might be one of those people who wades very slowly into the water, not one who jumps in off the high dive.

[ThatDude93]

lol Sam we are all just kids...(at least most of us are under 18)

but some know their sexuality...and they get sexually attracted

and I am close to being done with puberty, so you'd think I'd know

[Oblivion]

The answer to your q, JWB, is that you're just a kid.

Things like attraction and stuff take some time to sort out and understand, it's all new. Like anything new, it takes time to get accustomed to it, and very often, the way that happens is very gradually. So, for you, you might be more aware of the gradualness of it, it's not a 'Bang! There it is!' thing.

Just get out there, spend some time with people and see what happens and try not to jump to conclusions. You might be one of those people who wades very slowly into the water, not one who jumps in off the high dive.

Yeah, I agree with Sam
Also, TBH at 15 its unlikely you are almost done with puberty- maybe physically if you started early, but probably not mentally.

But if what you are saying is the case, IMO you would be heterosexual- you are mentally and emotionally attracted to women, just not sexually.

[ThatDude93]

well I am judging it by the stage test thing...I am like 4.3/5 so that it getting close by that things standards...but truthfully, I still do have a ways to go

[Θάνατος]

The answer to your q, JWB, is that you're just a kid.

OK I see no reason to point out the obvious here, we are all teenagers here on this site. By acting rude like that you are not helping the OP get an answer to his question.

Well to be honest with you don't worry about what label you have bi, str8 gay or curious. You are 15 enjoy your teenage years and go with what you feel is right to do. It is OK to experiment and explore your sexuality.

It is better to do it now while you are young then one day when you are married and have kids and you decide that you are gay or bi. That would be a big shock to everyone.

My advice to you is have fun and experiment now and not wait until you get older you can always blame your actions now on puberty and hormones.