Thinks she's the one....

[RowanVer.3.0]

My best friend. Known him all my life, we go back since we were in diapers. I've never had many problems with him, other than, he's in love with falling in love. I swear to god. I've never seen anything like it. Right when a girl says signifies she likes him he'll be crazy about her. For an example, he got this new girlfriend who's 12. She's gonna be 13 in may. My friend's gonna be 15 in a month, so it's like a 3year diff. So yeah..... Now he's all upset because when he's 18 it'll be illegal for them to be together.

And it sucks, whenever he breaks up with a girl he gets all depressed even if he just met them. Christ, he met this new girl about 2 weeks ago and they had their first date yesterday.. And he's planning ahead, and I know he's gonna get all depressed and not want to go outside for weeks when they break up because he's so naive! Every fucking girl he met since he was about 13 was "the one".......

Anyone have an idea of how to get him to snap out of it? I mean, it's just getting annoying now and I literally have no more remorse left for the guy.... So yeah, if the same things happened to you or a friend of yours what'd you do to get 'em to snap out of it?

Thanks.

[bbychop]

Well.. partly I get depressed when I get broke up with but I don't think every guy is the one. I mean, honestly, no one falls in love at 14 or 15..
I don't know. Some do though.
Just straight up tell him that she is not the one and that he will find the right one when he is a little older. Now, it is just lust. Later, it will be true love.
I mean, is that what he is looking for anyways?

[RowanVer.3.0]

Well.. partly I get depressed when I get broke up with but I don't think every guy is the one. I mean, honestly, no one falls in love at 14 or 15..
I don't know. Some do though.
Just straight up tell him that she is not the one and that he will find the right one when he is a little older. Now, it is just lust. Later, it will be true love.
I mean, is that what he is looking for anyways?
I have! We have! All my close friends and I always tell him. He never says anything... But seriously, every girl he meets he always finds things they have in common.. Then you have to listen to why they're perfect for each other. "You know, me and [insert girl name here] have a lot in common; [insert the most basic things here]..." He just looked for the most basic things and runs with that as if they have the same interests and everything. I always say "I hate to say I told you so..." whenever he breaks up.. Yet. A week later.... "You know, me and [insert new girl name here] have a lot in common; [insert basic things here]"...

He's insane....

[bbychop]

That is crazy.
Maybe one day he will find out himself.
And why do these girls break up with him?
JW.

[RowanVer.3.0]

I dunno. It just happens. They're going out and one day he' like "we broke up..." and when he asks them why they usually don't have an answer. Most of them he bearly sees and it's like he's craving the drama or something...

I dunno... Maybe he's just a drama queen.

[bbychop]

Lol sounds like it.