Gay???

[LKSora]

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[Atonement]

Hey, if you are gay, you are gay. I am going to say follow what you feel.

But, hoomosexuality is an emotional and physical attraction to the same sex. This means you can see yourself spending your life with another person of the same sex just as most people do the opposite sex. As if married maybe. idk your choice. But if you just like men sexually, you are simply curious about your sexuality and starting in fifth grade (approximately the same time as most people's puberty process begins) means hormones have something to do with it. So, let some time pass. You don't have to act on anything right now. Why would you? Just let your body do its thing and if you feel gay, then hell, maybe you are. Nothing wrong with that.

[byee]

Ok, I keep refining my answer to these "Am I gay?" worries, tell me how this works for you:

Homosexuality is about how you feel about yourself.

Sexuality is about what turns you on.

One refers to something that goes on OUTSIDE you, like the things that arouse you, like porn.

The other refers to what's going on INSIDE you, like your feelings andexperiences of yourself and others.

The 2 are different. You need BOTH to be gay. Looking at ANYTHING doesn't mean you're ANYTHING but a horny teenager. FEELING a certain way about yourself, and others, is a better indicator of homosexuality.

[thiscityisdead]

ehh it could curiosity, could be a phase, or maybe your bi, hell maybe even gay but i rele dont know what to say seein that gay porn and boys arouse you then i guess GO WITH WHAT YOU FEEL =P

[irishdude695]

That's what happened to me...and I'm gay. At first I really didn't want to be gay, but I soon opened up and everyone already thought I was gay because of the way I acted so it really wasn't a big shocker.
There is no was to turn your self not gay. You can't drink some magical potion and be totally straight. You should just think about it for a while and assess the situation. You never no, it could work out.

[Archer600]

You can choose weather to be gay or not so there's ur solution

[ViciousScheme]

Archer, it is nowhere near like that. You can't just snap your fingers and your not gay. Soro, I would say, If you REALLY don't want to be, think about your situation as much as possible and also keep in mind that your hormones are still bouncing off the wall. You may not be gay, and this may just be a phase. Wait until your older, than you can decide for yourself. I think this is way too early on to just decide "I'm gay." And p.s. I felt like that and it passed in about a week. Hang in there. p.p.s. I'm here if you want to talk.

[LKSora]

Thanks a lot evryone,especially IAMSAM
But most of all i must thank ViciousScheme
His answer helped mos of all.
Thanx man!! ;)