How to tell if she's ready??

[FeelMyArmz]

Ok so, my gf and I have been getting pretty comfortable lately, and obviously its too early for sex. But its hard to tell with her, when she wants to take it to the next step...and shes sending kind of mixed signals..but, she's been taking a few steps forward lately and idk how to respond, or what/how she wants me to react to/about it.

Help plz?

[Zan0ra]

If both of you are truly ready then go for it. But remember virginity is only something you can lose once so I suggest you lose it with the right person.

[Requin]

If both of you are truly ready then go for it. But remember virginity is only something you can lose once so I suggest you lose it with the right person.
Yup. Exactly right.

But how old are you? Losing your virginity at 14 or whatever isn't always a great thing...I don't actually get the whole "Virginity" thing, I don't care about it.

But if your not sure about how to respond to her 'hints' then ask her. Say, where do you want this to go? And if she asks you to have sex with her...think about it, I mean really think about it. Don't just say yes because you don't want her to leave you....just think about it is all I'm saying.

[byee]

Ask her!

[geniusrocksoutloud]

Just ask.If she really was your girlfriend, she would repect you for asking, and respect you for carrying round a condom (you should be!)

[FeelMyArmz]

K I'm 17. I don't plan to have sex with her until we are fully ready...but things have just been speeding up lately, and I dont know how to react to it. Well, i KNOW how I just dont know if she wants me to react the way I'm thinking. and I have talked to her about it, and she said that she wants me too, but I dont want her to say that just as an "in the moment" thing, I want to know she wants me to. Ya kno?

[Oblivion]

Ask her!

The simplest and best answer!
The only way to tell is by asking her! Guessing will not help.
Communication is key.