Gumleaf
December 31st, 2008, 12:21 AM
this is rather urgent since i only have about 3 hours from now tops to figure this out one way or the other. anyways, tonight my gf and me are going to a new years party. the party is at one of jo's friend's house. although i know her, she really isn't a friend of mine but since its jo and me, we are both invited.
the problem for me is, and it makes me feel bad, is that my good friend tiffany has no party or anything to go to tonight. she called me up for a chat a while ago and even though she said she doesn't care she has nothing to go to, the tone of her voice said otherwise. so there is my problem. these are the possible solutions i have right now based on the fact that my gf is working until just before we go to the party so i can't talk to her about it.
a) i go to the party as planned and call tiffy a couple of times and have a chat and stuff so at least she isn't completely alone without friends.
b) invite her along despite the fact that i really don't know the host of the party and not knowing whether there is a problem with that or not.
c) suggest to jo that either me or both of us not go to the party and hang out with tiffy so she can have some fun tonight too. even though that will mean its possible that jo and me will miss out on being together at midnight
idk what to do really. but i remember how i felt last year when i was alone on new years and remember how crappy that made me feel. but yeah. i have about 3 hours max. to figure it out. all help welcome, please!!!
the problem for me is, and it makes me feel bad, is that my good friend tiffany has no party or anything to go to tonight. she called me up for a chat a while ago and even though she said she doesn't care she has nothing to go to, the tone of her voice said otherwise. so there is my problem. these are the possible solutions i have right now based on the fact that my gf is working until just before we go to the party so i can't talk to her about it.
a) i go to the party as planned and call tiffy a couple of times and have a chat and stuff so at least she isn't completely alone without friends.
b) invite her along despite the fact that i really don't know the host of the party and not knowing whether there is a problem with that or not.
c) suggest to jo that either me or both of us not go to the party and hang out with tiffy so she can have some fun tonight too. even though that will mean its possible that jo and me will miss out on being together at midnight
idk what to do really. but i remember how i felt last year when i was alone on new years and remember how crappy that made me feel. but yeah. i have about 3 hours max. to figure it out. all help welcome, please!!!