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ConfusionMuch
December 30th, 2008, 08:31 PM
Ok,

Everything started off great. I went in to college one day, met this really cute girl. A week later, I was going out with her. Great for 2 weeks, her personality started to come out. Suicidal, and self-hating. 2 more weeks of telling her I think she is beautiful and she isn't holding me back, I see its going nowhere and want out.

I didn't have the heart to break up with her - so I said something I really shouldn't have to her best mate, which got her to dump me. A week passes, and I hear she tried running away and was caught at the airport - 50 miles from her house.

I'm thinking, thank you! She didnt go do something stupid. Next thing I know, I have her mates adding me on msn, right left and center begging me to get back with her, because she'll never be the same. I explain myself to them 10 times, then remove them...

About two days before today, I got an email from her best mate, telling me she had a noose hung from her bed, and a note wrote out on her desk - thats when she burst into the room and stopped her.

I added my ex to msn, and talked to her. She told me that If I didn't get back with her, she would kill herself and then the blood would be on my hands. I feel like i'm being forced into a decision here...

HELP!

byee
December 30th, 2008, 09:58 PM
You are not obligated to go out with someone for fear of what they might do otherwise. As a gentleman, you are obligated to be kind, but you are not obligated to continue in a relationship that does not work for you.

If she is suicidal, then you should tell someone in authority who can step in, evaluate the situation, and if need be, protect her by hospitalizing her. So, decide who that is, either her parents or your parents, the college health service, or the police, and make the calls necessary to ensure her safety.

And tell her MSN coterie what you are going to do.

Camazotz
December 30th, 2008, 10:10 PM
Just as Sam said, you don't have to date her. Just tell an authority figure, they'll take her to the hospital to treat her. You have to help her.

Mrs. Mustache
December 20th, 2011, 10:57 PM
I agree with them. She needs some help. Dont be forced into dating

ShatteredWings
December 20th, 2011, 11:09 PM
Dude. 08. Check post datse.