is my bro gay or strait?

[Duracell-o-Duracell]

Hey my brother needs help with something. He likes girls and wants to do sexul things to them( like most boys) but Girls hate him and treat him alful. over time he soon just thought that he wasnt ever going to do anything so he started doing gay stuff. after a while he soon becomes mixed up. He likes girls and gets in alot of crushes but he also likes to think about his male freinds doing sexul things to him.:what::what::what::what::what::what::what::confused::confused:

[Cindex]

He seems bi-curious, and there's nothing wrong with that. He is not gay, but not straight. This happens a lot during puberty and is brought up a lot here. Maybe he's just doing stuff with guys out of hormones? He wants sexual conduct so he gets it elsewhere.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah i think he is bisexual

[Neverender]

i think he is horny, and curious. he cant get to do anything with girls, so he goes for sexual activities with boys. and since he doesn;t seem to have anything wrong with that, i would lobby him as Horny and Curious :)

[MisterAndrews]

Yea, I think that becuase your 'brother' couldnt get sexual attention from girls he started to get it from boys. He'll grow out of it i think.

[Requin]

It's a mix of hormones (mainly) and having a backlash from the girls rejecting him.
Remember to tell him that there is always someone out there for everyone, always.

But he's only young and the hormones in his body are making him curious about the same sex, so there's nothing for him to worry about. I expect it's a stage and he will grow out of it eventually. And he's NOT bi-curious, there is no such thing.

He's just curious. :-)

[sabin22]

think hes bi-sexual noy

[LifeIsMyJoke]

This "brother" sort of appears to be bisexual. It would help if we knew "his" age (and why he wouldn't post this himself), before making any judgments, as if he is in the pubescent age of 12-15, it is most likely just curiosity getting the better of him.

[Zan0ra]

10-16 - probably bi-curios meaning he wants to try different things and see how he gets along with them.

16+ - possibly bisexual depending on what his age is above that. It would be helpful if you could clarify this bit for me.

Has he started trying things with guys because girls treat him badly or because he wanted to try things with guys.

[Duracell-o-Duracell]

he's 14

[byee]

First, i'm not sure what 'gay stuff' means. Guys experiment, 50% of all guys have a same sex experience with another guy to orgasm, so there's a lot of sex play that's normal and isn't necessarily indicative of homosexuality. Beibg gay isnlt so much about what turns you on or what you do as a teenager, it;s about the way you see yourself and feel about yourself and experience yourself. These are very different things, easy to confuse, but very different nontheless. It takes time to understand the diff, and until then, it's best not to jump to conclusions, esp. as a result of rejection.

Hang in there.

[thiscityisdead]

i agree with iamsam sounds like human curiosity is all...dont think you or your brother has any worries

[Camazotz]

I think that your "brother" is just curious. It's possible "he's" bisexual, but I think "his" hormones just make "him" want sex, no matter who "he's" with. It's possible that "he's" straight, but I think it's more likely that "he's" bisexual.

[chris__batman]

Yea, I think that becuase your 'brother' couldnt get sexual attention from girls he started to get it from boys. He'll grow out of it i think.

I dont mean to crush so many peoples opinions here..but i dont think any of you understand how UN-often it is that when someone would 'go there' sexually with a guy, there is NO chance that you are going to 'grow out of it'. Just doesnt happen. Sorry to be harsh, but im just trying to be honest. :whoops:

[Oblivion]

I dont mean to crush so many peoples opinions here..but i dont think any of you understand how UN-often it is that when someone would 'go there' sexually with a guy, there is NO chance that you are going to 'grow out of it'. Just doesnt happen. Sorry to be harsh, but im just trying to be honest. :whoops:

I dont think you understand how often guys have sexual relations with other guys.
Its said about 50% of teens males have sexual encounters with other teen males.
Just because hes not having luck with girls, and that he is experimenting with guys, it doesnt mean hes gay.
To be gay you have to be able to fully commit to a guy, you have to be able to see yourself in the future with a guy.
You have to be emotionally and mentally attracted to males, not just a silly hormonal horny sex drive.
To me your brother doesnt sound gay.