am i ready?

[lilshortzz]

ive been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and 5 months. and our feelings for each other have gotten deep. i think im ready for sex but im scared of the pain i will go through. im not being pressured or anything. but i know it will hurt.
am i ready?

[Sapphire]

How old are you?

Call me old fashioned, but I do think that age has to be taken into account among other things.

[lilshortzz]

im 15.

[Sapphire]

I don't see anything suggesting that you aren't ready.
And, it won't really hurt. Just make sure that you both enjoy exploring each other and having foreplay first. That way, you will physically be ready to have intercourse and the pain will be minimal.

[lilshortzz]

ok thank you, but im just curious. . .what are some examples of foreplay?

[Sapphire]

Kissing, petting, tickling, biting and so on.

Anything that arouses you tbh.

[mjsmalls]

I think you are.

[The Pretender]

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[lilshortzz]

i live in thee USA. and i dont think there's a 'legal age'
cuzz teenagers here are having sex no matter how old they are.
mee and my boyfriend are thee same age.

[Aηdy]

i live in thee USA. and i dont think there's a 'legal age'
cuzz teenagers here are having sex no matter how old they are.
mee and my boyfriend are thee same age.

I'm pretty sure there will be a legal age. It's 16 here in England. But many teens do choose to ignore the law.

[lilshortzz]

well, if there is an age. i dont kno about it, and im pretty sure other teens dont either.
i mean people loose their virginity at 9.
so we dont pay attenion. and i dont there's any point because no one's aware. and no one cares.

[Aηdy]

I still think that losing your virginity at a young age isn't a good idea. It should be something that happens with someone you're very much in love with, and I don't think love is fully understood at a young age.

[lilshortzz]

thank you for your opinion.
but, im pretty sure what i feel is real.

[Denise]

the only person that can answer if you are ready is yourself. you have to look at the consequences you'll face, and decide if you are willing to face them.

[Sapphire]

I still think that losing your virginity at a young age isn't a good idea. It should be something that happens with someone you're very much in love with, and I don't think love is fully understood at a young age.
To have lasted nearly a year and a half with the same boyfriend at the age of 15 (just one year below our age of consent) shows a real degree of commitment - especially considering hormones flying about. I am tempted to say that even if they waited another year (or until they are legally allowed to have sex) that they would be just as ready as they are now - or just more desperate! Lol.
i live in thee USA. and i dont think there's a 'legal age'
There is a legal age of consent for sex where you live. It varies between the states so I am not sure what it is. But, I assure you, there is one.
im pretty sure what i feel is real.
You seem really clear on this, so I agree with you.

[Θάνατος]

I'm pretty sure there will be a legal age. It's 16 here in England. But many teens do choose to ignore the law


Technically it varies from state to state in the US.

About 5 years ago here in my state two 17 years old got charged for having sex. The both got probation for having sex under the age of 18. It was a weird case but it can happen it almost never happens though.

If you are going to have sex just be careful that you are mentally ready and always use condoms. The sexual act lasts a short compared to the rest of your life being a parent.

I still think that losing your virginity at a young age isn't a good idea. It should be something that happens with someone you're very much in love with, and I don't think love is fully understood at a young age.

I agree here you shold not lose your virginity just to lose it.

But Andy who are you to judge how old this person is when they can lose their virginity. Age has nothing to do with love or losing your virginity. Love and losing is part of the maturing process ands some people mature faster than others. You can be way more mature and be young and be really immature and be older. Age should not be a factor on when you lose your virginity but being mentally and physically mature is what should count.

[notsure101]

Well its not any kind of rape because they are same age, but back to the point, if your in a deep relationship, make the first time count and I MEAN it , really virginity is a thing you have contol over and if you and your boyfriend really think your ready go for it