gay?

[todd92]

whenever i j/o i have to imagine myself doinging sexual stuff to boys my age for anything to happen.when i think of girls nothing. is that just my curiousity,or am i really attracted to them?

[Neverender]

You sound curious. Hormones can do that to you. But to tell if your gay/bi, you simply have to establish whether you have any physical and emotional attractions to the same sex if your gay, and both sexes if your bi.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

its normal to be curiouse about guys

[byee]

You sound aroused by them. That's not the same as being gay.

Here's my current explanation (I explaned it a bit differently yesterday, you might search my posts).

Homosexuality is about how you feel about and experience yourself. What turns you on is part of that (the easy part), the other, more difficult part is what (or who) makes you feel safe and secure and loved. That takes more time to figure out, and is seperate from what arouses you during masturbation.

Arousal = how you feel about others.

Attachment = how you feel inside, about yourself.

If you're merely turned on by guys, you're likely just a horny teenager. If you identify with, or *feel* with other boys as if they are your soul mates and the ones you see yourself mated for life with, who you turn to for love and safety, then it could be different issue. But that takes time to figure out.