first time j/o

[Dazed_And_Confused13]

my friend told me about j/o so i decided to try it. I began to masturbate and actually very quickly reached the point of orgasm. The build up was really intense for me. but it felt good so i kept going. When suddenly precum came out followed by sperm. I Freaked out and stopped rubbing immediately. Then there was this god awful pain in my pelvis. it went away in a few minutes. I think it was because I stopped so abruptly.:what: Am I right?

[byee]

No. The pain in your pelvis is probably unrelated. If you rub and do not ejaculate, nothing happens, everything sorta goes back to where it came from, and you do not get 'blue balls'.


Masturbation isn't a competitive event, it should be enjoyable. Do what feels good, take your time, and in time, it will all work out and be OK. iI you're not ready or you get nervous, that's Ok, just stop and it will be OK.

As with anything regarding your body, if you twist it, or strain muscles, you'll feel some pain, but that's from muscle things, not masturbation.

[Thatsjaredd]

i agree with "Dr. Sam" up there ^^ aha but yea its a nice feeling once you get used to it

[pontiacdriver]

my friend told me about j/o so i decided to try it. I began to masturbate and actually very quickly reached the point of orgasm. The build up was really intense for me. but it felt good so i kept going. When suddenly precum came out followed by sperm. I Freaked out and stopped rubbing immediately. Then there was this god awful pain in my pelvis. it went away in a few minutes. I think it was because I stopped so abruptly.:what: Am I right?

My guess is that because you are totally new to the whole masturbation/ejaculating thing that your body is not used to the sensations that happen when an orgasm happens. Also, keep in mind that most guys have a refractory period after they ejaculate which causes discomfort for a very short time if you try to masturbate again.

In short, you are fine, and my first time was pretty much like yours. Once you get used to masturbating and the associated feelings, then things will be pretty enjoyable.

[Θάνατος]

Masturbation isn't a competitive event, it should be enjoyable. Do what feels good, take your time, and in time, it will all work out and be OK. iI you're not ready or you get nervous, that's OK, just stop and it will be OK.

I don't think he was saying he was trying to go fast as in going real quickly. I think he meant he cam real fast as in premature ejaculation.

Hey the first few times you masturbate and cum it will happen quickly. It will take time and practice to be able to control how long it takes you to cum. Jackingworld.com offers some great tips on masturbation and controlling orgasms.

Well good luck and enjoy masturbation.

[Eskie Dog]

I am probably completely wrong, but maybe that was your muscles in that area since that was your first orgasm, maybe they just need to be " worked out" a little.

Enjoy masturbation!

[Eagle1]

i also agree with dr sam^^

[Dazed_And_Confused13]

yeah I was not rushing into anything. I was not purposely j/o real fast. but it just happened so suddenly.

[bball90]

when you masturbate and then abruptly stop, i sort of get an empty unfufilled feeling inside. i dont like it. i usually get the feeling when i hear somebody coming up the stairs to my room and then i have to stop, cover my penis, and tell them i am naked becuase i am about to take a shower

[miromiro]

I did feel just a little pain around my genitals when i jacked off for the first time, the the awesomeness of the pleasure covered up my pain. Maybe u should not exert so much force and try not to get so tensed up. Thats what i can say. I agree with Dr. Sam too.