permission?

[ArtistInNeed]

so ima lil confused. a few days ago my boyfriend gave me permission to have sex with a girl cuz i never had the chance to fulfill my bisexuality. O.o should i do it?

[nachtspiegel]

Do you think he is fully supportive of this and would not be emotionally affected by your doing this? Did you ask him if you could do this or did he come out (whether in the blue or otherwise) and tell you that he was alright with this? If it is simply that he wants you to experience this and there are no heart strings attached, it wouldn't be so bad. However, if you think that there is a chance that, in the long run, your doing so could hurt him and risk your relationship, I would definitely think twice.

[ArtistInNeed]

well we were talking about out fantasies and i said i would like to have sex with a girl and he asked me "well, why havent you?" and i said cause im with you, and like a minute later he said "i give you permission to have sex with a girl if you want" and i asked him if he was sure 3 times and he said yea. i told him i wouldnt do it cuz im with him...but idk..he hasnt been giving me sex and im sexually starved. idk wat to doo

[MoveAlong]

I suggest you watch the movie "American Pie Presents: The Naked Mile"

Sorta same situation, except that bisexual thing.

The thing is, do you really want to? It doesn't sound like it, it sounds like you're perfectly happy with your boyfriend. Maybe he feels bad that he's restricting you from having all the experiences you may want. But that doesn't mean you have to do it. You can show your loyalty and love to him to just say that "I'm happy with you."

Also think about this: your boyfriend doesn't care if you have sex with another person. Doesn't that kinda bother you? If not then ok but it would bother me, especially if he has been neglecting me. Shows that he isn't too protective of his relationship with you in my opinion.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i dont think you should i mean what if your boyfriend wanted to have sex with a guy, wouldnt that hurt you even if you say you are ok with it

[ArtistInNeed]

i wouldnt want him having sex with anyone else, and i dont really think he wants me having sex with anyone else either..but he wont touch me..

[MoveAlong]

then you should ask him about this instead of keeping to yourself about it. ask him why he's not paying attention to you.

[byee]

Call me old fashioned with this one, too, but when 2 people are in a committed relationship, they don't go around giving eachother permission to have intimate sexual contact with other people. This type of behavior isn't supposed to be for entertainment purposes!

Likewise, when 2 people are in a committed realtionship, they talk and listen to eachother, in your case, about your unmet sexual needs with him.

In the absence of that (and in the unfortunate presence of both of you experiencing extra relationship sex as entertainment), it might be a very clear signal to say good bye and find satisfaction elsewhere.

[please help me 69]

i think you should say i decided not to and then he'll love you and will be like ohhh thankyou and give you a big diamond

[pizzamon]

Even though he said you could be with someone else I don't think he truly wants you to be with someone else, but hey I don't know him.