God my friend is being pain

[Church]

One of my friends recently thinks I hate her, I was hanging out with some other friends and some what blowing her off cause my friends came from out of town and wanted to spend time with them, she now thinks I hate her and wont take my apology, what should I do?

[Gumleaf]

well she obviously feels rejected and i know from experience being a pretty sensitive person myself, that when i feel rejected by a friend i take it very personally and i suspect she feels the same way. if she doesn't accept your apology, then all you can really do for now is hope that she calms down and comes around in the days or weeks ahead. i know this must really suck, because i'm sure you didn't mean for things to turn out how they have, but she probably feels hurt so hopefully she'll come around in time.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

reject her and then she will come back to you when she see that you dont care
it always works

[Atonement]

reject her and then she will come back to you when she see that you dont care
it always works

Um... no.

But what Gumleaf said is dead on. Do your best to explain and talk to her, and then give it time and hopefully let her think about it and calm down. Give her space too. Don't like, fret over her if that makes sense.

[byee]

I often seem to get myself into trouble 'round these parts for taking people too literally, but I question if you're really 'blowing someone off' b/c you're spending time with out of town friends. "Blowing someone off" suggests intentional, mean spirited rejection, like "GO AWAY!". rather, yours sounds more like a reasonable decision to spend time with people who you otherwise don't get the opportunity to see very much.

As long as you didn't have plans with her which you didn't honor (as in just not show up), I'd say she's being a little jealous and immature here. This is not a major war crime, mind you, but it does present the opportunity to you to explain calmly and logically why you've chosen to spend that time with the out of towners (that you rarely get to see them), AND it is in no way a reflection of your feelings about her or your friendship.