How to make it last...

[tkitty]

My girlfriend and I want to lose our virginity together...we keep talking about how we want it to last. But people say that when you have sex you go pretty quick. How can I make it last to where it will take me a while to go and let her have a lot of pleasure.

[Rutherford The Brave]

The first time is well nice but it never lasts long. I'm sorry but we really cannot give you tips on how to last longer. If it's any help look at her and take your mind off of it. Other than that really can't help you.

[Wiszbone77]

there is no telling how long you will last, a way to try and attempt urself to last is train urself by masturbating, and just before you ejaculate....STOP, and let your erection go down or just stop for a bit, thats bascially it...uhh just remember this, you say u may want to lose your virginity together...just makes sure she really is the one u absolutely love, and not just think u love her cuz you've been going out a long time...trust me, i got drunk, lost my virginity and regret it ever since. Just make sure you WEAR A CONDOM!

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah i mean i lost my virginity when i was 10 and now that i found that some is not the same even if you do it more than 10 times with that person it wont feel the same as your first time trusth me

[football]

yeah i mean i lost my virginity when i was 10 and now that i found that some is not the same even if you do it more than 10 times with that person it wont feel the same as your first time trusth me

10? wow


but anyways,

yea i havent lost it yet, i just train myself with masturbation.

[digzchickz]

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[Rutherford The Brave]

Ok ok, can we please avoid details? I think this could be closed but it's not my call so I will report it.

[Patchy]

Yeah, wanking and having sex are related, but they are still 2 different things. Masturbating helps you discover some things about yourself, such as what feels good and recognizing when you are about to cum and stuff like that. However, the sensations for sex are a lot different, especially if humping things hasn't been part of your routine, because thrusting your cock into a vagina is a very different sensation then pumping away with your fist. The first time is going to be awkward. Generally it goes one of two ways, either the guy gets too nervous and goes limp, or else he gets overly excited and goes pump, pump, shoot. lol So yeah, it wouldn't be a bad idea to have some back up plans, do a lot of foreplay, and be prepared to do other things if you cum too quickly. If you fool around long enough, (about 10-15 minutes) you might be able to get another boner and have another go at it, that is the great thing about being young, the refractory period is really short.

Can we lay off the extreme details please?

Ok ok, can we please avoid details? I think this could be closed but it's not my call so I will report it.

Please don't post that you've reported a thread that can cause you some problems.

[DarkWingedAngel]

it's a little thing called 4play
try it it might work for you
but remember you want to loose your virginity to someone you love and care for not someone were you will regret it in the future so think about it

[SockzInABox]

you don't HAVE to stop once you ejaculate
most people do but that's there prefrence you can
keep going alot of people just keep going..

[Sapphire]

If you both engage in a lot of foreplay (tickling, petting etc) then you will both enjoy the whole experience much more than if you rush in. Take your time and enjoy making each other feel tingly and loved.

you don't HAVE to stop once you ejaculate
most people do but that's there prefrence you can
keep going alot of people just keep going..
QFT. Chances are that you'll regain your erection really quickly too.

[Emoboi]

I have had sex alota times I loved the girl but not enough ended up dumping her

[SLABBS]

If you both engage in a lot of foreplay (tickling, petting etc) then you will both enjoy the whole experience much more than if you rush in. Take your time and enjoy making each other feel tingly and loved.
this is a great techneque and chanses are that if you really love eachother it will strengthen your relationship dramaticly.