getting bored

[enjoiskater94]

well my girlfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months now, and all she ever wants to do is girly stuff that bored me out of my mind, what should i say to her if i dont want to do something gay like that? or should i just shut up?

[Gumleaf]

maybe you should talk to her and try and come to a compromise where you can do things together that you both enjoy. you know, the key to a happy relationship is being able to communicate with eachother. my gf and me do things we both like at different times, and we do it together. i'll go shopping with her and do girly things with her and then she'll watch football with me and do other things i like. if you tell her how you feel and find a way of doing things you both like then i'm sure things will be happier for you in the relationship.

[enjoiskater94]

looks like i've got some growing up to do..and thanks man

[Camazotz]

maybe you should talk to her and try and come to a compromise where you can do things together that you both enjoy. you know, the key to a happy relationship is being able to communicate with eachother. my gf and me do things we both like at different times, and we do it together. i'll go shopping with her and do girly things with her and then she'll watch football with me and do other things i like. if you tell her how you feel and find a way of doing things you both like then i'm sure things will be happier for you in the relationship.

I agree completely. Communication is key in relationships. You should be able to compromise with her. Do stuff you both enjoy. Sacrifice some time to do what she wants, and she should sacrifice some time to do what you want.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah but the important thing is that you both have a great time together by communication

[clueless]

I don't really know how to answer that, you should try to find enjoyment out of just being with her and not what your actually doing.

[pizzamon]

I agree that talking to her is the best thing.