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Killah-X
December 26th, 2008, 10:27 PM
Hi when I masterbate I always feel like I am being watched... so I do it under my bed. ( I have a bunk bed) Then I noticed what if someones watching me from the open area sides lol. So now I do it under my bed, with a blanket over me. I know it sounds weird but how can I make it with no feeling of being watched? Please help me.:(

Sumitup
December 26th, 2008, 10:58 PM
you could always lock your door... then search the area to reassure yourself that no one is around.

Antares
December 26th, 2008, 11:05 PM
Lock your door, close your windows and all will be well. i think I understand what you are feeling like though. But if you have a small confined room, just assure yourself that you are fine.

Killah-X
December 26th, 2008, 11:08 PM
i do lock my door and close windows nd put blinds on but im still scard lol

Thatsjaredd
December 26th, 2008, 11:31 PM
aha once i did it in my backyard when no one was home
it just feels nice doing it out in the open

miromiro
December 27th, 2008, 09:07 AM
Well there is almost no possibility that anyone is watching you when u lock ur door or close windows, so just try to get rid of the thought that someone is watching you. At least u can lock ur door, if i lock my door my parents will get suspicious, so i just close it, which is quite dangerous actually.

byee
December 27th, 2008, 03:38 PM
Perhaps the issue isn't so much that others are actually watching you, but rather your own guilt? Lots of people feel guilty masturbating, it's secretive and no one gave you permission to do it. And we all know that we're not supposed to keep secrets and do stuff without permission, so we feel 'guilty'.

However, everyone (of both genders) masturbates, it's normal and natural. As you get a bit older and more accustomed to it (and the urge), it will feel more 'normal', and you'll feel less guilty. And with that, the 'paranoia' will go away, too.

Camazotz
December 27th, 2008, 03:54 PM
Perhaps the issue isn't so much that others are actually watching you, but rather your own guilt? Lots of people feel guilty masturbating, it's secretive and no one gave you permission to do it. And we all know that we're not supposed to keep secrets and do stuff without permission, so we feel 'guilty'.

However, everyone (of both genders) masturbates, it's normal and natural. As you get a bit older and more accustomed to it (and the urge), it will feel more 'normal', and you'll feel less guilty. And with that, the 'paranoia' will go away, too.

I completely agree.

Killah-X
December 27th, 2008, 04:38 PM
Your probaly right it is probaly just guilt thx but my parents r fine with me locking my door and my mom knows and she says its perfectily normal so I guess ill try rembering its normal

Kalphite
December 27th, 2008, 07:33 PM
lol i always feel that to
i usually.. lock the door n stuff :P

Eagle1
December 28th, 2008, 03:58 AM
well ive never really felt like that but if you have a lock use it lol

Eskie Dog
December 31st, 2008, 12:29 AM
What are you scared of? Its perfectly natural. And I guarantee you there is a 99.9% chance your dad has masturbated too. If you are so scared, talk to your dad he will understad and you will not have to be afraid

thiscityisdead
December 31st, 2008, 02:04 AM
i get that way sometimes seein that my door doesnt have a lock =P but i usually just listen carefully and use blankets lol...works for me.

kniwtohynroh
January 1st, 2009, 03:37 AM
-sorry i realised this post is agaisnt the terms & conditions so im erasing it-

curiousteen
January 1st, 2009, 04:20 PM
i feel the same way i usually wait till im home by myself or go in the shower