love addict?

[just-me]

after reading another great chik flick book, called "Breaking the rules", i realised that allot of it made sense to me.
its not another happy ending story really, but one womans struggle through the dating rules and tryin to find her true love, when she realises its never gunna happen like a fairy tale and her insecurities and problems surrounmding love.
but one of the main sections was her endless flings in aid to get over the loss of her long term boyfriend , who really it was never goin to be the one.
and i just clicked. it was a mirror image of the past 11 months in my aim to get over one of my ex's, who since i have had 2 bf's and many flings.
but it clicked.
i was over him a while back, but the idea of him, his affection love and caring nature towards me was what i was missing now. stability in my otherwise chaotic life.
and although i have fallen for another boy this book has made me realise to step back, dont work to try and make a relationship, be yourself let fate take its course, and for now this advice is workin.
but for how long it will last? not long enough ...

[Sage]

Err, I'm not entirely sure what you're asking in this thread... But I'll have to agree that in stead of seeking out a relationship, it's better to simply "let fate take it's course" and wait for the right moment. Does that make any sense?... I'd hope so.