sexuality

[BEAUTIFUL SILENCE]

i was wondering well...i like this guy a little and i want to friends with benefits but im not sure its a good idea considering im pretty young i dont want my mom to find out and i dont want my feelings hurt.

[Atonement]

If you are not willing to take the reprecussions of the actions you may or may not do, then you are not ready. If you are afraid your parents could find out, don't do it.

On a more personal note, I think that friends with benefits is bullshit and doesn't work out EVER. Sexual action without attachment rarely happens. Plus, 13 is too young in my personal opinion.

[Θάνατος]

i was wondering well...i like this guy a little and i want to friends with benefits but I'm not sure its a good idea considering I'm pretty young i don't want my mom to find out and i don't want my feelings hurt.

Well like you said you like the guy a little. You don't want to lose your virginity to a person you don't care about. When you lose it should be with someone you care about it should be special.

Your age doesn't have much to do with it except for the fact that you are not sure if you shold do this. Like Addison said "If you are not willing to take the repercussion's of the actions you may or may not do, then you are not ready." I agree 100% with hi on that.

I am sure your parents would freak out if they knew you were having sex. If you are not ready to handle that then you are not ready to try sex.

It is better to wait trust me.

[Oblivion]

If you are not willing to take the reprecussions of the actions you may or may not do, then you are not ready. If you are afraid your parents could find out, don't do it.

On a more personal note, I think that friends with benefits is bullshit and doesn't work out EVER. Sexual action without attachment rarely happens. Plus, 13 is too young in my personal opinion.

I definitely agree
A) If you arent ready for the the consequences (a baby, a STD/STI, much less your parents finding out) then you arent ready for the action

B) In my opinion friends with benefits really is crap, because you shouldnt be doing anything sexual with someone you have no love for (especially at 13 [in my opinion]).

[byee]

Sounds like you answered your own question here. If you don't want to get hurt, and you don't want your mom to find out, you shouldn't engage in sexual stuff, as it increases the probability of both (sex intensifies emotions).

Take care of your sexual needs yourself.

[BEAUTIFUL SILENCE]

I understand thanks for the advice but i defenitely do not agree that age matters as long as you love the person

[byee]

Hun, it's not only what you feel about him, it's what he feels about you. There's greater chance of heartbreak when those two aren't in synch. And there's a better chance of THAT when you get involved with someone primarily for the sexual piece. It takes time for BOTH to develop the feelings that make sex as plesurable as it can be, while also minimizing the vulnerability (and hence the chances of getting hurt).

Give it time before you make a decision.

[DarkWingedAngel]

Sam you always know what to say for everything rep+
anywho
i totally agree on what everyone has said give it some time to think it over before you do anything because the last thing you want is to loose you virginity and regret it in the future