Mutual Masterbation

[themanwithnoname]

My friend and I often sleep over at each other's houses, and usually end up talking about girls/ puberty etc, and this is pretty normal. However, although we usually talk about how we are kind of embarassed of our penis size, and are really open, we usually end up getting naked for most of the night, and measuring and comparing our penises. Sometimes, we will go on porn on the PC and masturbate (seaparately). So far this has been fun and stuff, but I kind of want to go a step further and maybe do some mutual masturbation or something with him. I definitely wouldn't consider myself as gay, but I am open to the possibility that I might be bisexual or just plain curious. I think he would definitely be up for doing it, as we both enjoy the 'naked nights'. How do you think I could suggest doing something like this, or how could I start doing it? I think if we both got drunk, then I could just do it and blame it on the alcohol...
any ideas/ help would be greatly appreciated

Also, do you think this is normal or really weird? And would you say I am definitely gay or what?

Thanks

[Jammy Jams]

its normal, and you are probably just curious. Before somebody else says this (because i know they will), be careful with this because things like this can easily ruin a friendship and create "awkward moments". Maybe you could just ask if he wants to, or if you can do it and if he thinks your being weird or something just say you were joking. then later on in the night, as your getting into things, maybe do a truth or dare type of thing. There are many ways of approaching situations like this, this is just one possibility.

[curiousteen]

u can come out wit it and ask him. its completely normal for u to that and its just tellin u that ur curious and walkin around naked wit a friend, comparing penises thats all normal and u woulndnt be considered gay for that.

P.S.- at least u have a friend to open up wit.

[Archer600]

Me and my friend did that once we were just sitting around masterbating andhe just grabed me and we both liked it. It's not gay or anything. In fact it's perfectly normal

[Oblivion]

Well it is completely normal to try it,
But as for how-
You said he would be up for it? So just ask him.

Getting him drunk is not OK, because it is illegal to have sex with someone when they are drunk, and it is considered rape
On top of that, you aren't legal if your in the US ;)

You shouldn't really be trying to 'get him' to do anything,
Since you don't want to force him into anything
But if you just asked, he would have the chance to say no, and have the chance to say yes

[George678]

Go for it if you want to, but if he says no then it is a no.

[Mark Anderson]

Hey well I was in a similar situation with a friend and the way i confimed tht he'd b cool with it was by saying : you knwo i don't think mutual mast. is wierd. of course i would only do it with a really good friend, you know like you or whatever. he said yeah same here. and later on tht night we got to it

[Trickster]

If you get him drunk and yore both exhausted from masturbating and your naked...wouldnt that give him the wrong impression of what came down last night. Not the best idea
Just ask him "You wanna go masrturbate with me? " Or something. If you two are naked together i bet you could avoid the awkward moment. You two trust eachother enough so i dont think you have anything to worry about.

[Θάνατος]

Getting some one drunk and doing something sexual could be considered rape. Not only that if you do something without his permission and he doesn't like it. It may cause you to lose him as a friend.

Just be careful and ask your friend in a joking way about going farther or like some one said already do truth or dare.