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Kallvin
December 21st, 2008, 10:21 PM
So there is this girl (1) me (2) and another guy (3).

2 and 3 both are borderline obsessed with this girl and we both know that.

We are cool with it but when it comes down to it, we really want 3 to be our girlfriend.

3 says she likes me but everything we do together she does to 3.

We text on average 200 texts a day and a phone call every other day, I do know 3 texts her as well but not sure to the same extent as me.

Like we hold hands....she hold hands with 3.

According to 1's friends she doesn't like anybody but she just loves the attention from us and she doesn't want a boyfriend.

Yet, she continues to flirt equally with the both of us. This morning 1 and 3 went to the seahawks game today and 1 didn't tell me about it but I found out through her friends. I do not

know if they have done anything but i guess you could say I was extremely hurt by this and maybe jealous.

She texted me during the game and I replied with "don't text me, pay attention to 3" sarcastically because it really hurt me.

I told her I wasn't mad at her even thought I was and now she won't talk to me....I am depressed but I think I love her, I hope you can understand all of this, what should I do?

Gumleaf
December 22nd, 2008, 07:36 AM
i think you hit the nail on the head when you said that she likes the attention. this girl sounds like the type that loves having the guys around her and getting their attention bt flirting just because she can. i have to say that if you are interested in a relationship, then this girl probably isn't the girl for you, despite how you feel about her.

Sage
December 22nd, 2008, 09:20 AM
Call me old-fashioned but I say love is a feeling between twp people. When it comes it hits you in the face like a brick, it shouldn't be a hard decision between several people, like it seems to be for this girl.

Other fish in the sea, chico.

Archer600
December 24th, 2008, 04:53 PM
I had almost the same problem only my friend actualy was going out with the girl. I got realy angry at my friend and the girl got angry at me for hating him. My advice would be to let it go because in my situation I lost the girl and almost my friend. Although it was really funny because he was so scared of me beating the shit out of him that every tiike I walked up to him he flinched at every move I made