Am I a lesbian/bisexual

[Usasati]

Well I know I am not totally a lesbian since I have a crush on a guy. But, sometimes I get the urge to like touch my friend's boobs and stare at them. I kinda think "I wonder what her boobs feel like?" and stuff. Does this mean I am bi? Also once I asked my friend to grab my boobs, because I wanted to know what it would feel like to me (I said it in a joking way to her), but she didn't want to. Then she was all "do you like me?" but I know for sure I don't like her romantically! help me? :confused:

[Antares]

Girls Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[byee]

The fact that you have a 'crush' on a guy, that you have feelings for him, would suggest you're not gay. Bisexuality is a bit more complicated, but it's not determined by what arouses you either, and you're not talking about those other factors, like emotional attachment and romantic need.

What you are talking about is curiosity, and a lot of people of both genders feel that, esp. at puberty. Wanting another person sexually (of either gender) doesn't necessarily mean you're much of anything other than a curious teen.

[eikookmi]

Well you're not a lesbian since you have a crush on a guy. But a relationship involves physical attraction and emotionally attracted to them.

So think about if you like girls more than just their physical qualities?