What should I do?

[Kyle787]

I just asked a girl I REALLY like today out and she was honest and said I'm a nice guy but she has a big crush on this guy who is a Junior in High school. (me and her are sophomores.) I still really like her and I don't know what to do next. Should I stay friendly. When should I ask her again if at all? We also have cotillion in March. Please I need some advice because I was never really in this situation before.

[jjmcray]

Do you know if the junior guy likes her back? Maybe you could just try asking her out on a date or to lunch or something... slowly "win her over," ya know?

[Kyle787]

Do you know if the junior guy likes her back? Maybe you could just try asking her out on a date or to lunch or something... slowly "win her over," ya know?

ya I see. I kinda went on and just asked her on a full blown date like we were in a relationship. I still talk to her, so should I just ask her what she is doing next week and take her to a movie as friends? or is it too soon?

[Sage]

Always start as friends, man- it's your safest bet. Get to know your lady, yeah? Just hang out, be cool, and hell, take her to a movie- Just insist you're going as friends.

Patience is the key to a good relationship. Go get 'em, tiger.

[dyslexiaa]

Always start as friends, man- it's your safest bet. Get to know your lady, yeah? Just hang out, be cool, and hell, take her to a movie- Just insist you're going as friends.

Patience is the key to a good relationship. Go get 'em, tiger.

If you're going to try and keep it as friends to progress, make sure you're flirty with her. When you start to seem more like a brother than a boyfriend to her, that's all she'll see in you and it'll mess up your chances.

Make sure you don't focus only on this girl. Keep your options open, it is high school. You're better off experiencing as many people as you possibly can at this point that sticking with one girl the whole time.

[byee]

Good for you for finding the courage and self confidence to ask her out! Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. Either way, it's good practice. Don't get discouraged just b/c she said no.

What to do now? Wise man once said, "Stick around long enough and everyone eventually becomes available". Translation: Continue being her friend, respect her current relationship status, and see what develops. march is still quite a ways away, a lot can change btw'n now and then.

[enjoiskater94]

how the hell does a girl like someone who is like 12? there's other fish in the sea though man.

[Oblivion]

how the hell does a girl like someone who is like 12? there's other fish in the sea though man.

A junior in high school is 16-18...

But other than that,
Good for you for finding the courage and self confidence to ask her out! Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. Either way, it's good practice. Don't get discouraged just b/c she said no.

What to do now? Wise man once said, "Stick around long enough and everyone eventually becomes available". Translation: Continue being her friend, respect her current relationship status, and see what develops. march is still quite a ways away, a lot can change btw'n now and then.

Is superb advice. There isnt really anything you can do, other than stick around and wait.

[Camazotz]

You can wait for her. Or you can get over her and find someone else. I personally find it easier to find someone else. Waiting makes it more painful if she still says no. It will feel like a waste of time.