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Barin
December 19th, 2008, 04:35 PM
k so theres this girl at my school whos really weird and i barely know her name and shes being really annoying! i hav her in two classes choir and english. in choir she is the worst singer and apperently she wont stop starring at me. my friends tell me this because i try to avoid looking in her direction. also im kinda sorta trying not to be so nice to her and she thinks its funny! and english she tries to sit by me all the time and its really annoying!!!
HOW DO I MAKE HER GO AWAY?!?!
HELP ME!

mr.sexy_bomb
December 19th, 2008, 05:40 PM
just tell her to back off

Barin
December 19th, 2008, 06:28 PM
just tell her to back off
thats the problem if i tell her that she thinks im joking!

byee
December 19th, 2008, 08:33 PM
Barin, she likes you! Other than the (unimportant) fact that she can't carry a tune, is she OK? Is this something maybe worth exploring? B/C she clearly likes you, there's none of that dreaded risk of rejection. Maybe you could be her friend?

dyslexiaa
December 19th, 2008, 08:36 PM
If you are dead-set that she's someone you don't want to talk to:
1. Tell her to stop bothering you and tell her that you're serious.
2. Talk to a school counselor about it.

I doubt you'll have to do anything further than that unless she starts to act on the level of harassment.

Wiszbone77
December 19th, 2008, 09:29 PM
Just do exactly what Dyselxiaa said, ...but if you really want her to back off, just simply tell her that she is annoying, its mean yes, but it can work

Sage
December 20th, 2008, 01:53 AM
Well, I won't repeat what everyone else has said, if you want her to back off I'm sure you have some idea of how to by now- But to go with Sam, is there anything really that bad about her? I mean, is it so hard to accept someone for being 'weird' and try being nice to 'em?

Archer600
December 24th, 2008, 04:58 PM
It could be a lot worse

Sage
December 25th, 2008, 03:43 AM
It could be a lot worse

It could always be worse and it could always be better.

foof1
January 2nd, 2009, 05:50 AM
Well unfortunately for you, it looks like this girl who really annoys you has a crush on you.
There are many ways to deal with this.
1. You could be totally mean and tell her to bug off.
2. Completely ignore her because if she feels that she is failing to get your attention she will just leave you alone.
3. Kindly tell her that you want to sit with your friends in english.
4. In choir try not to listen to her.
5. I know that you will not like this but it is an option. Accept it and maybe even embrace it. Not everyone is fortunate enough to be liked by someone so... maybe if she's ok, you ask her out. Then when you brake up make it the kind of break up where she will not want anything to do with you. But of course it could be one of those situations where you would not be caught dead with this person.

So it's up to you and I'm sure there are many other things you could do.

foof1
January 2nd, 2009, 05:53 AM
You know what ignore what I said. It's mean and I'm not a mean person. I agree with IAMSAM.