About this girl... what can I say to her?

[RebDoomer]

There is this girl I see near my route on my job, what can I say to her?
Alright you might have seen in my last question I said I was a UPS driver helper and I needed some advice on stretching before my route. Well, when I go to meet the driver at the specific time, I usually get there about 20 minutes earlier, not that this matters I dont think really.

Well I meet my driver at a Dairy Queen and it is not a sit down place. It is a concession stand. And a couple of the girls there are really cute and I might be interested in her. How would I start off talking to her?
I've ordered food and stuff there just a couple times, but not much other talking really. I dont know their names because the town I meet in, is not where I live so I dont know her.

I need help please, thanks to all who help!!

[nachtspiegel]

Do you see her every day that you work?

[RebDoomer]

Well yeah you can say so

[Callwaiting]

I guess seeing that she's there every day you work you might be able to talk to her about work? Just a few words here and there each time you see her and eventually she'll begin to remember you too. There's not much oppertunity to talk while both of you are working though, so I don't know exactly how that'd work out.

[RebDoomer]

Oh it's not that busy over there really lol.
It's more of a concession stand, than a regular Dairy Queen so you cant walk in.

But i get what you mean about the working thing but my job is just until January.

And you dont think she remembers me just coming by once in a while?

thanks and more answer would be helpful and appreciated thanks !

[byee]

Well, for starters, I would definitely not recommend you use your E. Harris quote as an ice breaker!

I'd start off with something really easy and non controversial, like "Hi!". You want to bring yourself to her attention, smile, make eye contact. Then, add a bit, each day you see her, like 'Hi, again. How are you?" "........I see you come by here a lot, like me. Is that tea/cofee/soda good? I'm a coffee guy myself.".

By easing into it, you take less risks, so there's less anxiety and pressure, and you also get to see how responsive she is to your overtures. If she's open, you'll know it and it will be easy. If not, then you back down.

[Callwaiting]

I'm sorry, I'm not sure what a Dairy Queen is :confused:
The amount of people that visit concession stands means that you can hardly ever remember a face. Maybe you could order something really strange(not gross, just different) and then the next time you come she'll be like "hey, it's the guy who ordered the weird food!" and give you something to make light conversation about. I'd still say your best bet is talking to her off shift, if you ever see her. eg "hey, don't you work at so-and-so? one time..." just make it seem casual and non-stalkerish. An example of stalker-ism would be "hey, you work at Dairy Queen and your name's Samantha"

[Wiszbone77]

If she doesnt live in the same town as you..im not sure the distance but long distance relationships Dont workm just keep that in mind

[RebDoomer]

Well, for starters, I would definitely not recommend you use your E. Harris quote as an ice breaker!

I'd start off with something really easy and non controversial, like "Hi!". You want to bring yourself to her attention, smile, make eye contact. Then, add a bit, each day you see her, like 'Hi, again. How are you?" "........I see you come by here a lot, like me. Is that tea/cofee/soda good? I'm a coffee guy myself.".

By easing into it, you take less risks, so there's less anxiety and pressure, and you also get to see how responsive she is to your overtures. If she's open, you'll know it and it will be easy. If not, then you back down.

The quote on my VT name online has nothing to do with me and this girl >.>

But I do happen to like your idea, adding more conversation everytime I go there, thanks =D



I'm sorry, I'm not sure what a Dairy Queen is :confused:
The amount of people that visit concession stands means that you can hardly ever remember a face. Maybe you could order something really strange(not gross, just different) and then the next time you come she'll be like "hey, it's the guy who ordered the weird food!" and give you something to make light conversation about.

Sorry you dont know what a Dairy Queen is =/ Fyi, it's an ice cream shop.
Anyway, yeah that does sound interesting if I ordered something unique? And she might remember me next time.

If she doesnt live in the same town as you..im not sure the distance but long distance relationships Dont workm just keep that in mind

It's only a 20 minute drive, and about 12 miles. I know really LONG distance relationships dont always work, but this might seem long, but it would be worth it in a way. But I can keep that in the back of my mind, thank you =D

[RebDoomer]

so not to be any pushy, but does anyone have any more advice please? it was a good start but anything else please?