Why do good girls like bad guys?

[RowanVer.3.0]

I never got this.. Good girls always like bad guys. They always find something attractive about them, and they end up fucking up their lives for them.. It kind of pisses me off how dumb they are. "OMG LOOKS AMI HE SMOKES HES SO HOT!"

Why is this?

[///James///]

i noticed that too, but its generally those who just follow a crowd.

alot of girl (in my school anyway) go by looks only, its only in about 5th year they start gettin serious.

im such an angel to be honest, so no girl would really like me, but for somereason a few do! ouch!

[serial-thrilla]

hmm i wouldnt say smoking makes you a bad person.

[RowanVer.3.0]

Just giving an example. It's a cliche, I know, but still. They tend to like trouble makers. Most trouble makers do drugs, smoke etc. so yeah.

[[email protected]//]

yeah ive noticed that..its prolly just to make them look cool or something..i rele dont know though

[Elokyn]

now I gave this a lot of thought and I think I actually have a reasonable answer!

I think "good" girls like "bad" boys because "bad" boys are generally doing something that they (the girl) have never done. (in a gang, smoking weed, stealing, ect.) and when a guy can educate you on something it's a turn on. My brothers roomates smoke weed and I was asking all kinds of stuff about it and something about it just intrigued me (no, I didnt smoke it)...I wasnt attracted to them but the fact that they were telling me things that I dont know made me very interested in being around them. I just think girls get interested and when they start getting educated they form a liking for the person because they have taught them something that noone ever has before...or from a different perspective. Ya know?

I hope that made as much since to you as it did in my head lol

[MasterCujo]

I agree with nykole, but I have a few things to add. I've noticed that most trouble makers r people that r good at standing out in front of people and stuff, and always take advantage of the situation. When u say "bad" boys, u mean the trouble makers who can always make a situation out of anything, and r able to make their enviroment work for them. Most girls r attracted to boys who take control of a situation and r not afraid of a teacher or cop, or whatever. Its not that they want to be with someone to smoke; its that they want to be with someone whos not afraid to smoke. So I guess what I'm tryin to say is that they r not attracted to the "badness" but the traits they have that contribute to their "badness". I hope this makes as much since in urs and nykoles head as it did in myn...hehehe

[r0x0row3nd]

no no no no no i consider myself a little of a bad guy i mean breakin a few windows with bricks and the bag of shit lit on fire but anyway my gf hates that she has threatened to take away very important privleges that i MUST HAVE!!(will not say wat they are just needed) if i dont stop so its not all girls oh and she hates me smoking anything

[boy_lover88]

I think girls are attracted to "bad" boys because of the 'ability to protect'.
Most females want a male who can protect them and their children or just them. It's like some kind of natural thing with men, since they are naturally stronger than women. When a man shows a sense of fear in something than that woman usually doesn't give him the attention. Why the hell do you think that most women want you to stand up for them? It's her test to see if you can show your manhood.

It's all about protecting your mate, but then again, there are those girls that can fend for themselves.

[TheWizard]

Bad boys do it and good girls want it.

[*BrokenInside*]

well i think that "good" girls like that "bad" boys for other reasons then the ones that you guys have said.. Girls dont just like guys because of the way that they act and what they do.. They have a connection with each other, which is more then just ohh you do something that i have never done and i think that is kewl..... There is also alot of girls that dont like the "bad" boys.. It depends on who you are and what you look for in a boy..

[infextus disease]

through all my years of observing good girls going after bad-boys... i would have to say its not so much that they are "bad" but different from all of the goody-goodies...i mean personaly i see my self as somewhat of a badass and good guy at the same time. im not afraid nor will i back down from teachers or cops or whoever... because i know ive done nothing wrong. sure i can manipulate a situation to work in my behalf but im gunna have to agree its partly that good girls are turned on by being able to learn from a person that they grow intrest in, i believe its also partly good girls want to do it/ try it and badboys just do it. but there are two other points i wanna toss in there... one, everything is not always as it seems... meaning good girls at school may not be good girls out of school... the second part which kinda stems off of the whole protection thing and being able to manipulate a situation and not backing down from authority figures is that bod-boys tend to have a bit more self confidence and a bit more well my friend calls it "dont-give-a-fuck-itous" (all one word) basically they are pretty care free and dont really care what others think of them... i would say though that this topic could have plenty of different arguements either way on it depending on the variables

[Hyper]

Curiosity realy.. And its realy shallow, that most of the girls just run after the 'surface' qualities. Like under that person who doesnt give a fuck and is so cool is mostly a prick :P but also what I have noticed is that most kids are assholes because they think its cood and they follow the few assholes who just happen to be big by growth. The person who is quiet and doesnt act like a 5 year old may not give a fuck what ppl think about him/her the person may be able to change a situation beneficial and so on.. What I really mean is ppl are different and girls are curios and problably wont look for someone 'thuraly' ahh god well I am feeling the stray off subject and bad English -.-

[~Ðarç~]

I think what james said thats it a crowd thing, I don't think a "good" girl would actually get married to a "bad" guy...would they?

[hardcore-smile]

Kayy its beacuse girls want guys that will fight for them like achully fight and good guys will be too afriad and bad boys dont give a fuck if they get hurt just so they can protect the girl and good guys are very afraid and uncofertuble and bad boys arnt they will do what ever the girl wants them to do and bad guys are REALLY hot beacuse they like smoke,brud,drink and its soo hot so yeahh

[Hyper]

Lol if your definition of hot would be some1 who will problably not finish school, who kills hes own health yeah then their very hot but.. The definition of ''good'' guy what is that? Someone who doesnt smoke or drink? Someone who will finish school? Its a bit too hazy as what someone considers 'good' or 'bad'

[RowanVer.3.0]

Kayy its beacuse girls want guys that will fight for them like achully fight and good guys will be too afriad and bad boys dont give a fuck if they get hurt just so they can protect the girl and good guys are very afraid and uncofertuble and bad boys arnt they will do what ever the girl wants them to do and bad guys are REALLY hot beacuse they like smoke,brud,drink and its soo hot so yeahh
I reveal your honour, exhibit A... Seriously though, there's a prime example of what I meant. It makes no sense... I'd fight for a girl if deemed necessairy.. I'm not gonna pop a guy in the face for looking at me side-ways, but if some chud started flirting with my girlfriend I'd tell him to piss off. If he didn't, push him and see where that takes me. You don't have to be a 'bad-boy' to have some balls.

This brings up the question, what is a 'bad-boy'? An idiot? That's basically what it seems to me a 'bad-boy' is.. I drink, sure, I've shoplifted a few more times than I probably should have(I'm not proud of it), I skip classes/jig and I've broken into a house before... but I get awesome grades in school. And thus, am labeled 'prep'.. Doesn't really bother me. I couldn't give a fuck, sounds like a compliment I find. I really don't do my homework, I just pay attention in class and I end up getting high nineties in mid-terms/exams which brings my average into the upper eighties lower nineties.

Plus, I respect my elder's/teachers. So what? I expect the next generation to do the same to me...

I can't believe this thread is still around. I made this almost exactly a year ago. But yeah, 14 has been quite the year for me I think. I've gotten in trouble for a lot of things I'm not proud of, stuff that I'd probably never do 2 years prior.

Hopefully 15 is more kind!

[JoshDude]

I believe that it is curiosity because good girls havent experienced what bad boys have...