OK...any help?

[terminoob]

Well, one night, I was thinking about this girl in my history class, and I went to sleep thinking about her, and what could happen if I asked her out, and I dreamed about her. It was a few weeks into the future, and I asked her out, and she said yes. So now, I start to think about her more, and I really want to ask her out, and I did, but she still hasn't told me her answer, so I'm just hoping for the best, and trying to get a moment alone with her so I can talk to her about it.
Now, onto a different subject, in my french class, there's this girl, who's a junior, and she thinks I'm cute, now, I'm only 14, and I like her a bit, but I dont know if she thinks if I'm cute enough to go out with, or she just thinks I'm cute like a puppy or something.
So, do you think I should give up with the girl in my history class, who is the same age as me, and see what the other girl thinks, or keep trying to talk to the girl in my history class about going out? Cause I really want to go out with her, but if I couldn't, and the girl in my french class wanted to go out, then I don't know if I should, considering she's like 16, probably almost 17, so there's about a 2 year age difference.
Sorry if this is jumbled up, I just need to know what to do...

[byee]

Hi Nick,

When an older chica refers to you as 'Cute' I think it's sorta condescending. There's this unspoken 'rule' that older doesn't go out with younger, and I think that's what her description of you refers to.

I'd stick with the girl who's your age.

[terminoob]

ok, thanks

[dyslexiaa]

Don't overthink stuff like this.

If you feel a connection with the girl who's the same age as you, pull the trigger and ask her out. I'd say do it with the least amount of emotion possible and just try and have fun. Don't take anything too seriously or you'll end up messed up.

If you want her answer faster, ask her about it and maybe threaten to move on if she doesn't hurry up (even if you wouldn't.)

For the older girl, pursue it. Ask her about it. Flirt and see if she bites back. What's the worst that could happen?

[curiousteen]

if i were u id probably stay wit the girl in ur history class cause u already asked her out

[Wiszbone77]

Don't rush the girls answer, just give it some time and if she doesn't respond to ypu after about a week, then you can bring it up.

And for the girl that says she thinks your cute, well, if you decide to try and go for that fish, try and give it some time before you try anything cause if the girl you asked finds out that you tried to go after another girl, then she might spread a rumor.
Good Luck Bud!

[Yoyo-XX]

after u ask her out, and she says no, dont immediatly go to the girl in ur french class.if ur that crushed then ur going to want some...well...love?i dont kno if thats the right term to use but if u do that the relationship wont last long and it will end badly.

[GiZzLe]

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yea i agree you should stick with the history girl because you already asked her out ,give her time and dont rush her.

[AutumnDae]

Please don't bump old threads, thanks. Locking