Ok , This Is Annoying..:S

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Hello , Guys :)

My Problem is:-


This girl at school and im like Bestist Mates Everist with her , and she said she likes me alot and she just can be herself and when we hug and stuff she dosnt feel weird she feels herself...and i feel the exact same way , Butt Like everything else there is a twist..


The Twist: <---- He He

She said she likes about 4 other boys aswell , Im like WTF! , ( ob didnt say that to her ) so i didnt say anything , she is all over people at school like , me and 2-3 other lads , it pisses me of so much and i dont mean like , hugs them a bit i mean she hold hands feel each other up big tim walk around rubbing people faces in her tits and stuff , but its just everything about her except that one thing ,

i said what would you say if i asked you out she said yes , then wanna my mates who she also fancies , ( she fancies 3 of my mates and some randomer from an scottish gymfest she went to ) So , my friend asked her what she would say if he asked her out and she said she would say yes ,

What pisses me off is how she can say all that stuff about me then just be a slut.


The Other Thing......WAKEY WAKEY , i know your falling asleep , Sorryy


There is this other girl in my class and we are the best mates ever and i mean like , its undescribable ( i cant spell either ) she tells me everything about everything , about everything You get the picture....

And i have always liked her , in year 7 i was a TWAT year 8 i matured wasnt such a twat and being skank on girls and became much more apreciatice of what i got and shit , so i became amazingly good friends with all the girls in my tutor ,

Like all the time she'll just random come up to me and start "feeling me up" , and i aint complaining because i Really really like her since like the first time i ever saw her , and then i dunno what to think because....


In year 8 we got real good friends and rather physical then i thought she liked me so i asked her out and she said no , so i took it on the chin , we didnt talk for ages and same thing happened we got really good friends again this time i didnt ask her out using my head , but its been almost a year and i just cant hold it back any longer i dunno what to dooo.........


Love You Lots Like Jelly Tots ;)

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Honestly, the first person you described is not right for you. I'm sure she'll shape up, but don't mess around with her when she's like that. You'll probably end up doing something you'll regret.

The second one is a maybe. I don't know any of you that well, but she seems like she really does like you. Maybe she just doesn't want a commitment. Like friends with benefits or something. I really wouldn't recommend that either.

Really, you need to find a straight up girlfriend. One that isn't in it for physical. Believe it or not girls usually have a stronger sex drive than guys. I have some very close friends who are female and all of them say that they and their friends have a relatively strong sex drive. You need someone that you like, and that likes you.

[Gumleaf]

well for the frist girl i think she is either the stereotypical slut, or she is the type of person who likes to be close to all the guys, but at the same time giving off the wrong signals to all those guys.

for the second girl. after you asked her out and she said no, things obviously went bad between you guys for a while. you need to think about whether anything has changed to make you think she will say yes this time and whether its worth risking your friendship again. but if thinking about her in the gf way is causing you so much grief, then perhaps then you should ask her, but the decision is up to you. only you can make it.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Oh jeez. Well, I must ask what you mean by "feeling up" during hugs. I assume you mean like, grabbing their buttocks (being politically correct xP).

Don't go for it. This first girl might be a great friend, but it sounds like a physical relationship could end in heartache. And you're most likely to be the one getting hurt. There is nothing wrong with her having a crush on multiple guys. Even couples in exclusive relationships sometimes fancy someone else, but they still prefer the person they're with and don't intend to break it off or to cheat on them. So that's no big deal. However, if she's feeling up her friends (not cool a this age, or really at any age), flaunting her boobs, saying she'll go out with almost any guy who asks her, that's a bit of a red flag. It's one thing to like two guys, and to want to go out with them. But are you sure she wouldn't say yes to both of you? At the same time? If you're positive she'd say yes to the first one to get up the guts, and then have enough of a conscience to say no to the other guy, mayyyybe she's ok. But would she stop rubbing her breasts in the other guys' faces (literally)? Would she understand that that's more than just typical flirting, and that it's not fair to you? If it upsets you now, imagine how you'd feel if she was actually your girlfriend. I hate to break it to you, but we both know that that isn't going to change if you start a romantic relationship with her.

The other girl, well, she said she didn't like you that way. Things may have changed in the past year, but they may not have. Get a better idea of how she feels. You don't want to end up pushing her away again, especially if you really consider her a good friend. You may just have to bite your tongue. There will be other girls. Ultimately though, it's your call. *shrugs*

From what you've said, I assume you're grade 9 this year? And since you say "grade 9", versus "9th grade", I assume you're outside the US, possibly Australia, New Zealand, or somewhere in the U.K.? If so, grade 9 probably means you're about 14, maybe as young as 13. You've got so much time ahead of you to find a girlfriend. Any girl who's preoccupied with flaunting her breasts around at this age isn't even worth a try. Hang in there, find someone who has some respect for herself and who's likely to respect a relationship with you.

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LOL! If there was a 'Cutest post of the Day Award" this would be it for me.

The first girl needs lots of male attention. Who knows what's up with that, but for guys who want a 1:1, it's a nonstarter. In order for any relationship to work BOTH need to be on the same wavelength, they need to be wanting the same things. Sorry.

The second lass has some potential here. Maybe you need to talk with her about your feelings and what you'd like, maybe there's a fit?