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DarkWingedAngel
December 15th, 2008, 11:09 PM
I finally get the curage to tell her and she turn's me off, I told her I cut well that was the biggest mistake of my life I ended up crying and running off to my room.

Now all she does is give me that evil glare.
I hate her so much.
I hate me why won't I just die.
I have tried so many times but it never works.
I fuckin hate life.

Zephyr
December 15th, 2008, 11:48 PM
All parents react differently.
Even if she acts mean now,
She'll come around.

Like you told me,
She told you to tell her if you ever started cutting,
So she can't be mad at you for telling her.

Just give her some time,
She needs to let it soak in.

Like I told you earlier,
The first time this happened with me,
My mom freaked out and left the house for hours,
Leaving me alone.
But she came around a couple days later.

You did the right thing,
And it took a lot of courage.
You just proved that you have the strength in you to do it!

It's okay to cry and to want to be alone after you tell,
Just let it all out and give your mom time to let it sink in.

jacknife
December 16th, 2008, 02:47 AM
Your mother needs time to let something of this nature be fully realized. Once it settles in and she becomes comfortable with the reality of the situation then I am sure she will be willing to talk again.

It is important that, if you want to stop cutting, you tell someone. You have accomplished that first step. It takes a great deal of strength to express your cutting to another human being, especially when you can not be sure how they will react; and though it's hard to be strong all by yourself it is what you must focus on now.

If you want to stop cutting just try hard to realize how incredibly powerful you are as a human being. I trust in your strength and I believe you can stop if you really put your mind to it. I also trust in the strength and morality of your mother, and I am sure she will come to her senses soon and reach out her hand to help you in these trying times.

neolithic
December 16th, 2008, 10:07 PM
my parents just dont give a fuck

ShatteredWings
December 17th, 2008, 06:53 AM
You said it never works. Well, yeah, it won't work because you shouldn't die yet.
i totally see why you're pissed though. you asked for help and got pushed away.

that deson't mean you're worth less.

Maybe she will get over the shock and try to ehlp you. not all parents are mean.

DarkWingedAngel
December 25th, 2008, 10:21 AM
update
just this morning my mom started to talk to me agen yayyy
she had me sit down and talk about it
she's gonna get me help i don't know how yet but she's gonna
so yea there's my update

chelsay13
December 25th, 2008, 04:20 PM
*sigh* wow, same thing happened to me. they don't get it, bt they're letting me to go therapy to get help...

eikookmi
December 29th, 2008, 06:09 AM
With me my parents are the one who saw accidentally. I wish they would have gone for a few days. Instead i just sat there crying and they started to cry a few times while they pummeled me with questions i had no answers to.
So far nothing has yet to happen. zz
But at least your mom sat down with you and you're getting help. That's good.

Cindex
December 29th, 2008, 11:55 AM
Hopefully by help she means a therapist. You told her instead of lying, so really she shouldn't be mad.

Your parents reacted rather nicely than my parents would have.. Back when I was in football someone wore track spikes (metal) and stepped on me. Cuts all over my arm and my mother freaked the next morning when she saw. She had the phone pressing 911 for police to take me to an asylum before I could say 'football'.

Your mother will help you, and she obviously loves you. Now she's talking to you, so I think it's sinking in. Give it time.......

please help me 69
December 30th, 2008, 01:04 AM
no perants going to be like good for you :) :) so just you are going to have to take it

thiscityisdead
December 31st, 2008, 03:30 PM
just give your mom time to calm down and let her take it in she'll come around eventually...no worries bro

DarkWingedAngel
December 31st, 2008, 03:48 PM
well she finally made up her mind
im going to go to a councilor for awhile so i don't have to worry about her doing anything else ....for now