need help

[teenagerughhpuberty]

ok so I've got this friend and we both boys and hes like my best friend kinda like a brother. and everytime i talk to him i feel different than when i talk to most friends. now im straight love the females =]. now my friend's goin on vacation for xmas break and im kinda mad that he is cuz we won't get to talk and stuff. i dont know i just feel really like warm talking to him and stuff. i love him like a brother. does this seem gay? or is it just friendship?

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think this is just a friendship since you say you love him as a brother so dont worry

[curiousteen]

its probably just a friendship cause ur so use to him being around all the time

[byee]

No, this doesn't sound gay, it sounds nice. You have a good friend who you feel close to. That's a good thing! Enjoy it.

We talk about homosexuality as an emotional attachment, and that can be confusing. But, emotional attachments are good things, regardless of the gender involved. Guys can be attached to other guys and not be gay. What's needed for homosexuality isn't just an attachment to same sex people, but a clear desire for them over the opposite sex. Gays cannot see themselves sexually with women, nor do they feel partiuclarly comfortable being in an intimate, one on one, long term relationship, there's no interest in 'pair bonding' with them. To oversimplify, you know how you feel thinking about gay porn? That's how they experience relationships like that with women.

Please note that this is an oversimplification and merely my own opinion.

[Archer600]

I feel the same way with my best friend. We've known eachother for so long that's just how we act

[Matt_]

I feel the same way with my best friend. We've known eachother for so long that's just how we act

Yeah...Although until age Fourty I'd replace that with "A large percentage of our lives" :P