Am I wrong?

[otakuamanda888]

Hi haven't been on in awhile. But here it goes: I am fifteen years old and I am of course still discovering myself in so many ways. I have a girlfriend who I love dearly, I have great friends who support us, and a wonderful family. But the family is the problem. My mother is beautiful, and I know alot of people say that about their mothers but I am worried. She has beautiful dark hair, caremel colored eyes that are always kind yet stern, and beautiful pale skin with a wonderful figure. Thing is I am starting to think about her more and more...but not in the way I should. When I masturbate I see her and her wonderful figure, and I feel like I am falling in love with her sexually. I feel wierd physically when she hugs me and when she kisses me goodbye or goodnight. And sometimes...well...I've said enough. Am I freak? Should I admit myself to a psych ward or is what I am feeling normal? Help!

[derletztetag483]

Well, it's not exactly normal. However it is normal to feel physical attraction. And in your case, it happens to be your mother. Try to think about your girlfriend when you masturbate, and try to focus more on her, rather than your mother. If you are feeling weird about it, just tell yourself no. Remind yourself that any sexual interaction with her is called incest, and is illegal. You've just got to think it through. Hope this helps!

[alsoknownas]

well if your mom is fit then theres no way of stopping you going whey thats a fine specimin of a woman but im sure the internet will show you someone better :D

[Donkey]

Everyone has crushes, just make sure not to make ANY move. I'm sure you'll get over it, and no, you just have a sexual attraction to someone - you're not mad.

[byee]

No, you're not a 'freak', but there might be something going on here you might want to take a look at.

Everyone's mother is a role model for them, they're the first woman we really know, and as a result, they sorta become the ideal. However, although it's really good to appreciate and love your mother, lusting after her is quite another thing.

If you find that the images of your mom, and the way she makes you feel sexually, are things that really get in your way and prevent you from focusing on maybe girls your own age, then maybe it's time to find someone professionally to talk with. I don't think this qualifies as a '911' call, I don't think you need to check yourself into a psych ward, but maybe finding a therapist to talk with isn't such a bad idea. Whatever it is that you're feeling seems pretty powerful for you and pretty disturbing at the same time. The therapist can help you better understand where these urges come from, what they might mean, if they're OK, and what you might do to deal with them.

Maybe you can tell your folks that you'd like to talk with a therapist, check in with them for an exam of sorts, and they'll make the appt., maybe you need to tell them you're worried about *stuff *and feel really bad and need to talk, maybe you can ask the guidance counsellor to help you get to one.